The perfect love affair is one which is conducted entirely by post.

I think you find many friends here on myLot along with a number of other similar sites. You really can't wait to see what they've posted for the day and read their responses to your posts.

Yes, I have but if I might say so, your header is a very strange comment. For the life of me, I can't see that ever being true. There is nothing like touch, and looking a partner, or friend in the eye, to bond a relationship... nothing like seeing a person smile and their eyes shine, or feeling their breath on your face, hearing them breathe, seeing them shed a tear, hearing the expression in their voice. You can't do that by post my friend, be it mail, or Mylot. Feelings can be developed, held and even heightened, but there's no real intimacy until a person has met his friend/partner face to face. Brightest Blessings. x

i have not had any good conversation with my lot members.. in my time of membership here, i am pretty independent. though there are those i admire when they posts topics and answer discussion, my admiration ends at that. :) i believe you though, that it is when you talk with people that you will find them interesting... and likable. i have met someone online and feel as though i like his manner of talk, his thoughts, etc.. so i guess a good conversation can actually be a good start of getting to know a person. :)