The Hardest Relationship.. ??

Yes, I never care about it anymore. Besides, they never think about you. What's the point of making the relationship. For some person, they can. But not me. Let bygone be bygone. It's useless, they are already on other's arm or other's legs. Well, that's me. By the way, nice thread.

The guy I am married to now was my best friend since we was both 15.Now we are talking about getting a divorce.I know our friendship can not go back to where it once was.I will always have love and respect for him but I can't see my self ever just chatting to him like a friend and telling him my private secrets like I use to.In most cases when you date a friend when it ends the friendship ends.

i think you are right. when friends fall in love its perfectly ok. when they fall out of it, it really hard to move on. again to become friends is not possible at all as i guess. still few people find it to be friends with ex.

I agree that falling in love with your friend is one of the hardest thing one can experience. I've also experienced it way back during my college days. I notice before that everytime we had a fight our common friends were affected to the point that they don't know who they side. But once you ended the fight both of you seem to miss each other so much. And in times of giving advice when one needs ityou don't know how to handle it. Whether to give an advice as a partner or as a friend. What really makes it hard is ending the relationship you had together since both of you we're shy to accept the fact that the love has gone. When we ended our relationship it is so painful for both of us specially with me because I knew it will be the end of our friendship. I cried over it for months. I couldn't imagine that both of us suffer for that breakup. I even knew that all his relationship has failed because he was looking something to them that according to he found in me. After a couple of months we had decided to talk and realize what went wrong. We both decided to retain the friendship since I am happy with my life now. I also found out that after a month he has a new girl and happy with her. Now whenever we saw each other we just laugh aout our past. We even became much closer now. So I think all the hardship really pays.