For married Chinese People

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If you found your partner was being unfaithful to you or in short, how if you found out that your partner was cheating in you, what will you do?" How if you found hes lying to you, saying that its not true, their just friend etc...so you will forgive and just forget those cheating issues just to save your family. But after a week or months you will have or found the proof of their being unfaithfull and if he or she confess it again that he or she really lied to you, what do you think you will think for this matter? Actually I am having this problem now, My husband did this to me to our life. I think talking and forgiving is no the answer to our problem now since i heared everything all he lies he made. I have my pictures of him with that girl inside of my sons bedroom. and that girls picture took inside of our house, in every corner of of house with my husband. Now I cant feel the forgiveness now, for my husband, all i have inside of my heart is revenge....I want to punish them - both... We have son, we've been together for 8 years now but i cant understand why he did this to us. I ask him before a divorce but he said he doesn't want to... Now all I want is to go away, far far far awwy from him but hes using my son now to stay with him.... I ask him to bring that girl to me coz i think its the only way i can forgive my husband but he doesnt want too... I was out of the country that time for my personal problem, about my parents, i need to go back to my own country for a months only but when i came back, my son telling me about their activities with his father and that girl while im not with them... I can find the right word for what i really feel right now, Is any one could tell me how to bring back their horrible attitude? My sister inlaw told me chinese man relly do so, and really some girls do so. I want to hear your words Chinese people.... I know and i still love my husband, my son is chinese now too. I am still hoping time will come i can firgive my husband, thou i know years will past, not now, Forgiveness will come at the end. If that forgiveness will come who knows we can still be together or we could be a best friend again.... Thank you for now and i would love to hear some advice too, to others of mylots friends even not chinese... i want advice too from you guys!