As A Wife

As a wife I told my husband that I love him everyday and thankful for having around him at the house to change our daughters diapers...Being STUPID sometimes...

I am very open to my husband and we need too since we have different orientation in life, different race! when he will do something that i feel I was insulted, I will easily complain and talk to him that I didn't like it and better in this way! I know we are still in adjustment period but we just need to be transparent to each other!

Oh we are always telling each other the things we hate lol. I hate when I mop the kitchen my hubby comes home and wears his dirty shoes in the kitchen.

first I am not a wife , as a husband, we hope you say some thing like this , i hate you drinking , i hate you somking, etc. you know the fight is the kiss and the scold is the love....

Before I finally committed myself to my hubby, I told him clearly... THERE ARE ONLY TWO THINGS THAT WILL MAKE ME LEAVE YOU... 1. WHEN YOU HIT ME and 2. WHEN I FIND OUT THAT YOU ARE UNFAITHFUL TO ME. We just got married last year and so far he has been a real good boy.

I believed that as a woman, we our more emotional that men.When there is something that my husband would say that hurts me...whether intentional or unintentional, i just cry secretly and pretend that i'm still ok to avoid further discussions but recently, i felt as if my heart would explode and so i started to show how i feel.I would stay in bed and when he approached me,i would bluntly tell him that i am hurt with what he said.He would explain that in his culture, it means nothing to him to be blunt sometimes.Being born to a different race is hard and is a major adjustment in our marriage.

My husband usually ignore me if I got really angry with him. Then later, after 1 or 2 hours he will pretend to ask me something and act as though nothing happen. I think most men like to watch TV. My one also ignore our son, let him play with whatever stuff he wanted to play and simply laid at sofa to watch show that he himself not sure what is he watching. My husband don't like to talk much. So sometimes we communicate online, funny, right? I also know him thru internet.

We never had the "talk" before he moved in with me...we would just "talk" as things came up really...and 10 yrs later we still do it when either he does something I dont like or I do something he doesnt like etc..

i fell in love with my husband because of his sense of humor and his great, caring heart...but after marrying him i figured out that the sense of humor, that often came out as being a smart butt, outweighed his compassion and his need to just be with me. i don't mean sexually either. just to hold me or have intimate talks. i would have to say that that would be my biggest problem with him. i want him to be more serious sometimes about how he feels about me and need him to show me, but the only way he knows to do is to joke around and stuff like that. he's working on it though and has started being so sweet because we sat down and talked about things. i don't mind the jokes and the laughter, but sometimes i just needed to be held without any expectations or smart remarks. God bless

When i am upset or angry i need my personal space and time to cool down, and thats the time when my husband keeps on asking me whats wrong, even after telling him like 5 times i will be allright after few minutes and asking him to give me space that i will tell him later...he doesnt stop. I really dont like it and can make me even more angry. I know he is caring and wants to help...but...he is not helping. And i also dont like when my husband is watching TV instead of playing with our little son...I always catch him doing it. And then our little one is trying to get his attention by screaming... But otherwise my husband is great, helping with housework and chores I cant really complain.