Do you love boy or girl?
By moondan
@moondan (712)
China
April 12, 2008 7:21pm CST
hello,my friends.Do you love boy or girl?
in acient times,in my country men are valued than women.one man could have one or more wifes.the emperor even has thousands wifes.I think it is so unfair betweens men and women.the child is the continue of the man's family.so born a boy for women is so important.they could be valued and posted because of their child.
customs and minds last for thousands years.so nowadays many of people also love to have boy specially the old people.if the first baby is a girl they we continue to have baby till they have a boy.To be frank, man has more resposibility and obligation than woman,but women are even great.they are kind and mild.
if you will have a baby,what do you choose?
3 responses
@Eileen01 (195)
• China
22 May 08
Boy and girl are equal in my family.My parents are enlightened .There are still many parents don't like girls in our country especially in village.old minds are not chaged.My classmate' family has 6 gilrs and only one boy ,and the boy is the younger.I think the family like it will hard to live.But they still want to a boy.I cannot understand as young generation.^_^
@moondan (712)
• China
22 May 08
Thank you for you to express your mind to my response.Yes,i also can't understand that custom.I think boy and girl are all good.You are lucky in one family that are equal.I think if parent treat their children differently will hurt them.I think it will be change day by day.
@somebodybig (941)
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13 Apr 08
Well ....most people want a boy.But deep down in me i love girls.I have a daughter and she is my JOY.She always bring Joy into my heart
