getting married
@anshirk_ramos (12)
Philippines
October 31, 2006 10:27pm CST
i am suppose to get married this december, unfortunately, it will not happen...sometimes we really dont know what will happen in the future...already expect soon to have my lifetime partner,but still he's not the ONE.
we love each other...how come compatibility keeping us apart..i'm still hoping there's room for us in this world.
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12 responses
@malsun (1528)
• United States
30 Nov 06
when the marriage day nears, its natural to have second thoughts as marriage is such a big decision. Having said that you are still at a stage where you can take stock of the situation and make a concious choice of whether you want to go ahead with the marriage, or not. It is a matter of not only your life but others like your respective families as well. so if you think that there is something seriously wrong about the partner you have chosen, you should not get into the marriage. save yourself a lifetime of trouble by backing out this unhappy marriage. all the best for your decision.
@anshirk_ramos (12)
• Philippines
30 Nov 06
thanks very much...sometimes friends really help on making good decision.
@anshirk_ramos (12)
• Philippines
30 Nov 06
thanks very much...sometimes friends really help on making good decision.
@monika71801 (240)
• United States
1 Nov 06
If you have a doubt in your mind about marrying your fiance', this is something that you may want to re-evaluate & ask yourself what is making you have this feeling. You are not going to be perfectly compatible. No one is! The thing that you must keep in mind is that if you keep open communication with each other & trust and honor the marriage, you'll only grow to continue to learn & love everything about each other. There will be disagreements but sometimes you have to accept the fact that you both will agree to disagree. Good luck with everything.
@anshirk_ramos (12)
• Philippines
6 Nov 06
thanks very much...it is really nice to hear encouraging words...it helps ease the pain..
@anshirk_ramos (12)
• Philippines
6 Nov 06
thanks very much...it is really nice to hear encouraging words...it helps ease the pain..
@kaspyv (1011)
• United States
30 Nov 06
there is no easy answer for you...you must be sure before taking your vows...what is it that isn't compatible? there are things about all of us that are not so compatible with our partners, but if its true love you can get past that......."LOVE ISN'T FINDING THE PERFECT PERSON...ITS SEEING AN IMPERFECT PERSON PERFECTLY" Good luck!
@anshirk_ramos (12)
• Philippines
30 Nov 06
i also believe of what you've stated in your response...maybe my ex-partner should also feel about it...thanks very much
@ngm_syd (1087)
• India
30 Nov 06
If you have a doubt in your mind about marrying your fiance', this is something that you may want to re-evaluate & ask yourself what is making you have this feeling. You are not going to be perfectly compatible. No one is! The thing that you must keep in mind is that if you keep open communication with each other & trust and honor the marriage, you'll only grow to continue to learn & love everything about each other. There will be disagreements but sometimes you have to accept the fact that you both will agree to disagree. Good luck with everything.
@anshirk_ramos (12)
• Philippines
30 Nov 06
thank you so much for the inspiring response...i hope someday my ex-fiance' would realize these things...
@yugi_sen (1741)
• India
21 Nov 06
Yes, Just like our friends has adviced... i would like to add only one point. something in ur mind is not allowing to compromise thats why u have this dilema. find out and see if you can compromise it for your luv.
if your luv is gr8 enough to compromise ur desire do it, u will feel relaxed and accept your marriage happily. After all marriage is all about 2 peoples compromise... it only matters who starts it first :-)
@anshirk_ramos (12)
• Philippines
21 Nov 06
thanks very much...your words give me second thought to think about...
@tinselcrimson (356)
• India
30 Nov 06
there are people who are not lucky enough to get their love my friend...be happy..im sure everything will be fine between you two..all the best..takecare
@frosthon (2249)
• Singapore
6 Nov 06
No couples are perfect for each other.
There is no 100% compatible for each other.
In a relationship, there are more things than consider and take into account for.
Be positive and good things will come your way.
All the best to you.
@anshirk_ramos (12)
• Philippines
6 Nov 06
thank you..good thing i have now myLot account..nice to hear good words from friends..
@1986anshul (648)
• India
30 Nov 06
hi friend how r u?
its good tht u r getting married ..
and u ll get ur life partner..
