What kind of advice you want to give to young lovers?

India
April 13, 2008 6:47am CST
When you come across young lovers in your family or friend's circle, will you support their love Or advaice them to give up love? In which circumstances you will approve their love? What makes you to advise them to give up love? please discuss.
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
15 Apr 08
I will never advice them to give up love! Its very wonderful to be in love. But, I will just tell them that take care with each other, respect and trust. Continue and do whatever makes you happy as long as you know your limitations and be responsible of all your actions. Regrets will always come at the end so be smart also. Do not just allow your heart to think for all, have it balance, mind and heart, in that way, you are sure that whatever both of you are doing will always lead you to happiness!I will also tell them that enjoy life more and do not take it very seriously, since they are still young, they might miss something in life that they will regret in the near future!
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@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
15 Apr 08
Young lovers are so cute to look at. They look very innocent yet cupid has already worked on them both. I have been a young lover as well, and it's a nice feeling really to share affection with someone you like at an early age. Well, don't be too serious. Make each one an inspiration to finish school and achieve more in life.
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@jstaubin (423)
• United States
14 Apr 08
I would tell young lovers to take it slow. hen you rush into things it can make the relationship more complicated then it needs to be. So I would tell them to slow down. Life is not a sprint it's a marathon.
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13 Apr 08
well.. youngters !! hmm.. keep going .. where your heart takes away !! but control ur emotions and dun cross your limits .. because this is the age where we think whatever we are is all right.. but sometimes we lost in love and indulge some crime.. which we can never able to forget.. so,, keep enjoying your love.. and make it your strength !! good luck..
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17 Apr 08
Lol its odd to read this as a so called 'young lover' myself! I know what you mean about being cute, I often think that people would just rather not see us being all cute and coupley lol in public anyway. Though me and my boyfriend arent really that bad because he's always had issues with being close to people, so really I'm honoured to get him close at all. And it's been great to see him open up to me, in a way that he's so obviously not done before. Personally I already know all the advice people think to give, because it's in my nature really to take it slow, not put all my hope into it (the relationship) and into him. Though i think my boyfriend could probably do with a little bit of realism now and again, as he's been more of a jump in with both feet type of guy in this relationship - declaring his love and referring to our apparently never-ending relationship and all that jazz. Anyway that is pretty cute, and yes in a way being an optimist is a god thing, but I think in the long run I will benefit from being realistic. Because we both have to move away to different universities at different ends of the country in September, and we at least have to be prepared from how much of an effect that will have on us (going from one extreme to another as we currently live together).