Are you both Perfect Match????
By MinamiKesh
@MinamiKesh (527)
Philippines
April 13, 2008 10:50am CST
since the trend of finding lovers todays-world of romance is to find their perfect match but did you ever noticed that even if they are perfect to each other or meant to be but in the end they get separated even if they had lasted their relationship for several years ??? why does it happened are they not perfect match??
in your adventure of finding someone who can be with you for the rest your life do you want that you both are perfect match??? if not why?? what's your considerations??
4 responses
@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
21 Apr 08
i totally think we r...we went the first 4 months with out seeing each other and now wen we did see each other it mad our relationship 10 x's stronger...i love him...he won my heart...
@iluvmyjames (84)
• United States
14 Apr 08
i am not married yet and i think i made the right setteings before to get married. noone is perfect, but we intent to made a good relatiosnship in our own ways (both couple). i guess thats why many get into devorce and separate ways becuase they didnt know each other well ,which they though they did. sometimes we really having this wrong presciption that we already knew our love ones bcuz we are inlove and want to be with them,but no, i guess thats not the right way to pursue and be married just knowing each other for couple months or couple weeks. we need to think that we can only say we already knew him complete, when we both try to spend and live together in one roof. but yes being to a long relationship will help couples to know each other well. by that we knew the weakness and good part of our partner and we will be aware of the attitudes we had. right now i know his is my match and we will getting married soon.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
13 Apr 08
a perfect match just means the interests and feelings are the same but does not guarantee anything,
but of you could love to swim, but does ntat mean that you will both want children, or will agree on how to raise them or even be compatible in bed,
what if you are a perfect match and one partner cheats?
life has all kinds of surprises, that we have to understand.
@sharay (2769)
• India
13 Apr 08
The first thing we need to do if we want our relationships to grow longer and sweeter is to give up our ego's, that is the first step for any kind of a good relation. I wont say me and my husband are a perfect match, he is extremely different from me, we both are two corners...but we both get along well just because we understand that we are so different from each other and we give space..we have understood us so well and ADJUST accordingly so that we lead a peaceful life instead of finding faults between us