Have you ever dated your lovers siblings?

Canada
April 13, 2008 9:44pm CST
Do you think it is okay to date or have relations with the sibling of a past lover? Do you think it's fair to them to get involved with a family member of theirs, or do you think it not fair to you that you should not be allowed to pursue your heart?
1 person likes this
4 responses
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
14 Apr 08
no. because my ex have ugly siblings. har har har. well thats a joke. the real thing here is no, because they are not my type. second out of respect i wont do that. i dont like my brothers dating my ex as well. when its over its over i dont want anything to do with them or my family with them.
2 people like this
• Canada
14 Apr 08
ha ha, Thank you for your response.
1 person likes this
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
14 Apr 08
I think it really does depend upon the situation and the family, some families are okay with it some will fight over it, there is no definite answer.
2 people like this
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
15 Apr 08
I think it would be okay to date someone if you had only dated their sibling before but if you were married to the sibling before then no, I don't think it is right at all. I would only pursue my heart if it did not cause conflict in their family. It all depends on my past relationship with the family also. If it wasn't very good then I would not worry about what they thought.
1 person likes this
• United States
15 Apr 08
I don't believe that its right to be involved with a family member of an ex. Its just nasty to me, and there are too many guys in the world to do that. That being said, I have done this once, completely by accident however. When I moved into my first apartment, there was a guy in the building that was kinda cute and was interested in me. I hadn't had any in a while lol, so I took him up on his offer. Big mistake. He was bad, really bad. Wasn't worth the trouble at all!!! Anyway, a couple of weeks later I end up running into a friend of mine. This guy had been after me for four years, and after running into him again. I decided to give him a chance. He came home with me to spend the night, and never left really. A couple more weeks pass. We are getting good into a relationship. We come home from where I don't remember, and the guy that I had made a mistake and slept with is coming out of his door. We were still on speaking terms, so I try to introduce the two, being polite. Turns out, the guy I slept with is the guy that I ended up with's brother!!! I was so embarrassed. I didn't say anything about it then, but when it did come out that we had slept together, I didn't deny it. It happened before we were together, and due to the quality, it would never happen again!!!
1 person likes this