when its clearly written you are not entitled to answer the discussion...

@subha12 (18441)
India
April 14, 2008 2:30am CST
How do you feel? in many discussions at mylot its explicitly written that if you are so and so... do you still respond? or you read and leave it? today i came acroass one such from a newbie asking people with more than xxxxx numbers to respond. i can't help it answered it saying taht i may not be eligible but still responding it. will you categorize any discvussion like this? it may be based on anything.
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23 responses
• India
14 Apr 08
i think it is ridiculoous. what sense does this make. it is an open site, all ae welcome to start a conversation as well as reply. if people so wish to write about issues which are only subjected to a certain class of people i do not think they should be here. i would think that is a bit rude. this is a very nice site where nothing is hidden. lets keep it that way.
@mrsjbelle (1640)
• United States
14 Apr 08
I agree with you! :) Discussions should not be limited. I have wanted to do some for "female only" etc but I decided against it:)
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
female or male only still applies. but when a newcomer with merely 30 post limits to people with more than 10000 its really ridiculous.
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@Chispa514 (871)
• Montreal, Quebec
18 Apr 08
i've done a topic like this, well sort of. I created a topic aimed at the Latinos of the site, BUT that doesn't mean that other people can't post in it if they wanted to. There really isn't a way to stop someone from posting on your discussion anyway, even if you wanted to, so to try to say only this person or that person can answer is really silly in my opinion
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@mamakat (321)
• United States
15 Apr 08
I have to agree with you about how it's not too cool to limit who's allowed to respond based on their rating, number of posts, etc. Limiting by gender, I can understand. But not excluding someone solely based on what number shows up beside their name. I have to admit I don't recall seeing any discussions that limited who can answer based on their rating. But I'm sure that's only because I haven't been around long enough and in time, I'll see some. Now me just being me, it would be tempting to be a stinker and answer just because I don't meet the outlined criteria. Of course, then I'd probably just be setting myself up for a negative rating for answering out of turn. lol
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Apr 08
actually i did not get the gest of this discussion can you elaborate more?
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Apr 08
ohh i see..actually if i had read the responses below then i will be enlightened of what you mean on it...thats what i always do..i dont read below the lines so that i can respond well in my own thoughts..maybe im just so preoccupied of so many things while logging in here..neverthless thanks for the clarification..
@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
i think i have written the discussion quite clear enough. still for your clarification, i saw a discussion where the user put in the heading like " its for the users who have more than 10000 post in mylot". the person who asked this has merely 30 posts.
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
15 Apr 08
I do like you said read it and then skip it. I can't think of the right answers to alot of these discussions started. Then some of them are to stupid to answer. The one liner ones are just crazy to me.
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
15 Apr 08
I agree it is crazy.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
i tried to skip it but could not resist to answer it. i thought it was too mush when a user with 30 post say so.
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@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
14 Apr 08
you know what, it is up to our descretion whether we would answer a discussion or not just as long we both respect each other's view , agreeable or not but if we do not know the answer the question then we might as well don't.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
still i could not resist answering it.
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• Philippines
15 Apr 08
then that is the test of your discernment. lern to manage it and do not let this discussions affect you.
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
14 Apr 08
When I come across those discussions if I have something to add I will definetly respond. And besides what do they know they are only newbies.LOL
@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
i also responded to it. but it seems weird when the person with 30 odd post ask to answer only people with more than 10000.
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@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
15 Apr 08
Sometimes i respond the discussion, but only when i have a little clue at inside the discussion. I can also ask for further information about what is exactly all about, but if it will fill my curiousity. But mostly ill past it, because i running out idea.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
i had the clue of it. the person just limited to users with more than 10000 post.
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@4mymak (1793)
• Malaysia
14 Apr 08
currently i only limit my responses to 'my friends', .. because i only respond based on the email alerts that i get from myLot... hmm.. i wonder why the members would want to limit their 'responders' to a certain a group of people only ? .. unless they think they can only get 'good-responses' only from this limited groups... .. or unless, they are actually conducting a survey targetted to a certain group of people... well, if i do come across such 'request' - i think i would comply - why waste my time responding to it - if it is not welcomed..
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• Philippines
15 Apr 08
I agree with 4mymak .. on certain things about this post. Yes, why limit the responders? well yes maybe they have a purpose... but myLot places it there to be on public for all. And if I came across such request I would also gladly answer the post to my ability.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
i also mainly respond to friends. but i also browse through all discussion sections. it was came to my notice there.
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• Philippines
15 Apr 08
I believe I know which specific discussion you are referring to. I have come across that discussion too. For that specific discussion you are referring to, I DID not respond. The only reason I have is that I was not qualified to answer his queries. There are other discussions though that I have responded to even if the author specified who should respond to the discussion. This is because though I do not meet the "requirements" of the author, I may have opinions or ideas about the topic at hand.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
hmm... actually i could not stop answering as i felt too irritated. the user with merely 30 post himself can ask to answer only people with 10000 or more post.
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@gabrielle47 (1219)
• Philippines
15 Apr 08
At first I didnt get what you were trying to convey in this post but as I read some of the responses, only then it was clear to me what you were asking from us. For me, for post that have such boundaries set in the post, I get interested in it at first if Im qualified and answer right away. But if Im not qualified, I still would like to answer it based on my opinion. I dont like to limit myself in what kind of interest or post to respond to as I like to have variety and expand my wings here in myLot.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
sorry that my post was not clear enough. i actually could not resist myself and i dropped to answer it.
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@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
14 Apr 08
If I had something to say, I'd darned sure say it! The person posting it in a situation such as that is probably looking for information from seasoned myLot'ers, not realizing that his discussion is going to earn him more money if more people respond, no matter who they are. If it's something controversial or opinionated that I don't really care about, I would probably bypass it (but probably would have bypassed it anyway). I play by the rules and if I've got something to say, there is no one here that's going to tell me that I can't.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
i also say so. i even ended up answerring it.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Apr 08
I have never seen a discussion like that or posted one, but if I did, I would probably (almost certainly) not respond to it. There might be a circumstance where I would respond anyway though I can't think what that might be right now.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
i could not resist to answer that particular one.
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• United States
15 Apr 08
Im with you I would have had to respond to.I don't think the number on your star,what color it is,or how many ratings matter.At least not to me.When I make a discussion I want anybody and everybody to respond.I think that thats rude.I might be busting some balls right now but who cares.We are all here to help each other out.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
i agree with you. why should we discriminate according to star,rating and all? can i say this is for them who have 10 star?
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@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
14 Apr 08
i will feel weird in this case dear. do you mean this newbie send pm to members, requested them to drop any response in his discussion? if i got this kind thing, i won't able to response it. surely i will see the discussion but not sure gonna response. it means i can't force my self to drop any comment if the discussion not interested me at all. i am being here to enjoy mylot not forcing myself having more extra cash. so i am sorry for this person perhaps i can't unable to help
@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
nope. that user has hardly 30 odd post. and was asking that its for people with more than 10000 post.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
18 Apr 08
I have never come across discussions like that, it kinda goes against a sense of community to do that. But I would have to see the discussion and decide if I wanted to respond anyhow.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
26 Apr 08
i haven't encountered discussions like that, that the author wants only people with high number of posts to respond to it. the closest thing i have encountered are discussions about things that i haven't experienced, tried, seen, watched, heard, or anything that i don't know which i wouldn't be able to contribute anything. of course i wouldn't answer that discussions since i wouldn't be able to say something related.
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• India
14 Apr 08
No i wont answer it, i just might go thru them but wont answer them, eligible or not i dont care, if its not 4 every1, its not answerable....
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
i think your approach is correct, but when a person with just 30 odd post ask for people with more than 10000 post i can't help to respond
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@s2a2n2 (1732)
• India
14 Apr 08
first of all is it available in mylot. As I am quite new, i am even not aware of this. how does it work? how do they set who only need to respond? but as of now i did not recieve any such message while posting
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
its not set by any new feature in mylot. it was mentioned in the heading that its for people with more than 10000 posts in mylot. the user who asked this has merely 30 post.
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@Candee (530)
• India
14 Apr 08
I am almost new here. So, I couldn't really figure out what you man. But if its particularly meant for any specific gender or specific group I think I wouldn't respond in case I do not fit in. Thanks.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 Apr 08
gender wise is still acceptable. but not divided according to ratings.
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