internet loving ?
By jidesh
@jidesh (283)
Canada
April 14, 2008 11:05am CST
Personally i feel that its a great way to meet friends and just chat. i dont think there any real solid roots to base any kind of relationships upon. Afterall you need to see and be with that person to know if you truly like them, body language tells you 70% of what they are thinking, Tone of thier vioce tells you 20% what they are feelin, so 10% of what they say doesnt even matter at all.
Internet love is tricky and you need to be very careful, its kinda like " ok is it worth it" , BUT and this is a BIG BUT, you can actually fall in love with someone over the internet. How far you want to take it is upto you. Coz after all love is what you feel, and what you say tells the other person what you are feeling. and whatever you say are beacuse of your intentions. so its how much are you willing to stake to make it work. sometimes its worth it and sometimes its not....if you are really smart enough then it goes without saying that you can fall in love and it can work.
what say ? 
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8 responses
@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
15 Apr 08
I want somebody to love even thru internet but it should be genuine.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 Apr 08
i'd say anything is possible. people can fall in love, fall out of love, make friends, or enemies anywhere.
Internet, or cyberspace is no exception to that. as long as there is interaction, then there are always possibilities of people getting attracted to each other...
@kezabelle (2974)
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15 Apr 08
Internet friendship can be the start of something stronger though, I met my partner online 7 years ago we have been a couple for over 6.5 years now and are 100% in love we have two beautiful little girls and I couldnt imagine loving anyone else the way I love him, so it can work it can be the start of something special however I dont think you can be in love with someone you have only spoken to on the internet without meeting them you have to be with this person and truely know them before you can love them and that means knowing everything about them not just what they tell you in online messages.
To love them is know their good points their bad their habits and want to be with them anyway you need to see them before that can happen
@Breath (1297)
• United States
15 Apr 08
Any relationship is work wether it is through the internet or in your everyday life.If you start to have a crush on someone or believe they might just be the one why not try...In life you never have or get anything worth while without at least trying....I believe love in it's self can be tricky.In the end though love is worth the risk and gamble beyond any odds...:)
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
15 Apr 08
It is true that we meet a lot of people thru internet by means of chats and forums etc..., From small talks and chitchats with the other person, we really tend to fall in love given that they spend a lot of time talking, calling and e-mailing each other. So I think it is okay as long as they are mature adults who knows how to handle this kind of relationship they are into. I have seen some people who met online then personally meet each other to get to know more then got married so it really depends on two people.
Cheers!
@melchris73 (23)
• United States
14 Apr 08
OK so I was totally not looking for love on the internet but I sure as hell found it. I was just playing games on Pogo.com chatting with friends and minding my own business when one of those friends and I started talking more and more while playing games and on IM and eventually started phone conversations that would last for hours. The more we talked the more we found in common and the more we liked each other until after a couple of months we had to admit is was love. He moved more than half way across the country to be with me and we've been together ever since. We just celebrated our 3rd anniversary and surprising to us both we are expecting a son in July and making plans to get married which we had planned to do before the baby but things just worked out differently.
@arshad5555 (812)
• Pakistan
14 Apr 08
I don't believe in internet love or friendship. It can be a useful way of exchanging thoughts and ideas to a person from another country or civilization. You can know about each other's culture' religion etc. But you cannot say you are in love with her/him or you are best friends.
Because love and friendship need much time to sepnd together to understand each other. So internet is a good way to chat with others but i think you cannot find your soul mate here.
Thanks
