do you tell your partner how you feel about them and do you tell the truth

Well to me i think honesty is the best medicine ever , no doubt if you dont trust your BF /GF or wife or husband what have you , then you simply have nothing ...if my GF tells me im getting fat and need to hit the gym then ill accept that and go to work on the gym ..same with her , if i feel she doesnt need to put make up then ok then alright ,

I agree with you that love is blind. Some may not think my boyfriend is sexy, but I sure do because I am in love with him. It's just like people with their children. Everyone thinks they have the cutest kids even when they aren't so cute. Theirs can't be the cutest because mine are. LOL. Anyway, it's because of their love for their kids that makes them feel that way.

I think that the more we love someone, the more beautiful they become. That's always held true for me, in all manner of relationships. A person's beauty deepens in our eyes as we get to know them, as we get to know their true selves, their depth and warmth, their humanity and soul, their essential essence. So, if along the way, they or we change in appearance, which we all invariably do, we love those changes too and see them as just a part of the person we love so much. That's the way I look at it. I don't know any other way to see it.

The truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth so help me God. And just before I sit down let me say just how much I strive on the truth. First up, I wear my emotions like a second skin so if I am not pleased he will know. Next up, I do not lie well so there again he will have the upperhand. So you know what.... I decided from long ago to just speak my mind and that is one thing I have always been complimented on. On the other hand if he is not honest with me thats when I feel hurt. Its not always pleasant hearing the truth but I'd much rather deal with and make peace with it than to live a lie or a fantasy. Love is blind but it does enough sight to be honest I think. (lol)

I try not to look at him in a negative light. What good what that do? We are growing old together, and part of growing old together is accepting that your partner is going to get older and they are going to change. If all a relationship has going for it is how the other person looks, than it is not a relationship that will stand the test of time. If my husband asked about something and wanted me to be honest which he would, I would be honest in the nicest possible way. When my husband tells me I am gaining weight it just hurts my feelings, I might diet for a day or two but, him saying anything is not really going to motivate me, it will just upset me. A woman needs to diet for herself and has to be ready to do so. A better approach is to say I would like to go on a diet would you like to do it together? Or I am going to take an exercise class would you like to do it with me? I don't look at my husband in terms of his physicality he is a good man on the inside, and that is what matters most. If I think he is getting unhealthy I will say so, but I do not aquate that to how he looks, rather how he seems to feel and behave. I know he would probably like me to look the way I looked when I was younger, but that is a lot to keep up. He still says I am beautiful, so that is all I need to hear.

there are some aspects that you should told your mate especially if its not good for your partner. If you love that person then you should be honest to her.

I am going to be honest. Sometimes love is not blind. I notice that my husband has put on a few pounds, has lost some muscle tone, gettin a little lazier as we get older. I know that I have put on a few pounds, lost some muscle tone and gotten a little lazier too. But above all, we overlook that stuff because we love each other. I have told my husband jokingly that we have put on stuff padding, but we both laugh about it and move on. I also tell my husband that he is the sexiest man on the planet. Because to me he is. I am still very much attracted to him and always will be. Good discussion!

gosh this brings back old memories, one of the biggest reasons why it did not work out with my man. the open honesty factor. there was always something hidden from his end. i have been too honest and open with him all along but i did realise after a while that he was not and that really broke my heart. being honest and open about how you really feel is the most important factor in any relationship dear.

I will not hurt him directely,if I love him.Some time,white lies are better than hurting him.Everyone need amour- propre,especially the lover aroud us.So,we should give some advices politely and they maybe accept them and correct of their own accord.Don't hurt them around you.

I believe in the truth.I know love can be blind but if my partner ask a question I will give him the truth.I try to avoid making him feel bad.I think before I speak and try to be kind even when the truth is not.I hope to think he is always honest with me about my looks or what ever question I ask of him.I do believe though if you really love someone those extra pounds don't matter as much ect...Love isn't blind you could just call it more forgiving...

Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months. That's not really a long enough time for a lot of physical changes. I think he needs to gain a few pounds. I mean I'm not fat or anything, I'm fairly built for my body. I weigh 170 pounds and he's pushing 200 he says. When we firt met he weighed 185 pounds. Now he's a bit bigger than he was but not much. He used to weigh about 400 and he lost a lot of weight really fast and continued to drop. I seen a picture of him at that weight and his arms were sexy as hell. I love guys with big arms. There's more for me to hold onto. I am attracted to him now and always will be. I don't care if he does get bigger and I don't care if he doesn't. Whatever makes him happy. With me I know I've gained a few pounds since we've been together. I can tell it by how tight my jeans are. It's hard not to gain weight when we eat at fast food restaurants quite often. He says he can't see it and that I look good. So if I'm fine the way I am for him then I should be happy with myself too. The only thing I would like to see happen with me is my stomach to go away a little so I can wear sexy clothes and bikinis in the summer.

first impressions lasts.. but love is really blind.. when you saw your soulmate, cruch, or what so ever.. you'll be deceived by his/her looks.. and there you can say that he/she is pretty... but for others, their beauty sucks.. lols.. Also, when you are in a relationship, you will just be immune of the looks of your partner.. You'll not notice the changes, etc.. And for you, your partner looks good, but for others, they are not.. ^_^ LOVE IS REALLY BLIND.. hehe!!

My partner always looks as good to me as when we first started dating. I know everyone changes and gets older, and I think it's truest of love if you find them beyond handsome (or beautiful) as much now as you did when first started dating.

Hey ma fren for the looks and apperance sky should be the limit sometimes you wil be thinking on some hot topic with your spouse it depends how the partners take it so its hard to tell here that who should be how cos its 1ce life style of living but there should not be complication created in looks as it wil spoil the relationship in the future..

Everyone see things way different than you really do... I don't think love is blind.. Reason being you fell in love with this person for they are not what they look like but as a person.. At least I know I did.. People think that looks are important in a relationship yeah ok maybe.. But deep down it's more than that.. And you know it is just that your other half does make you happy and no you don't see any changes why because that isn't important it's the love that is there that is.. And yes I do tell the person the truth but yet at the same time I make it simple not to hurt there feelings!

I do. We agreed to ourselves that we should be honest to each other. Being honest is something that makes one relationship stronger I would say. You don't need to hide anything especially if it won't hurt your partner. It's a sign of faith and loyalty.

No because I am afraid that my partner will be mad. Because she is a type of a sensitive one. She really cant accept the truth. Probably in the near future I will tell her.