What if your son is a g@y?

a pretty tough one, i couldn't imagine my son would be a g@y, but if he choose to be in the third gender... i guess. i don't know what to do, maybe i'll explain to him what is like to be a man and what is like to a woman... and he still want to be that way, of course i'll ask my wife about it.. hahahaha

quite honestly, it would totally disappoint me, but i would love him no differently than before him coming to me to tell me or me finding out. there would be strict stipulations though on what happened next. the man wouldn't be allowed to come home with my son out of respect for me and how i feel about homosexuality. it wouldn't be talked about around my home and he would definitely know how i felt about it. like i said though, he would be my son and i would still love him the same as if he were straight. God bless

This topic came up in my family as someone in my family had to deal with this, and and the family had to deal with the issues of it, what do etc, When it came down to it, I asked this one question and it can be applied to this issue, or to most issues that come up with parents and kids, Do you love your child more than you hate what they are doing or do you hate what they are doing more than you love your child? Most parents really do love their children, and when faced with that choice I like to think that they will love their child more than they would hold on to a bias or prejudice. In my family we choose to love those who are in rather than hate their personal choices, to me this is a non issue, since once a the child becomes an adult then the parent shouldn't tell their child what religion or spiritual value to follow, they should tell them who to love, and if a parent shouldn't dictate who their straight child should love, then it is NO different with a child who is not straight. In fact I had one friend whose mother was treated better by her son's significant other than by her son in law from her daughter's marriage, heck of her son, daughter, daughter's husband, and son's partner, her son's partner was the one she was closest to. So if parents are open loving and accept that they can not dictate the love life of their children, they can have some wonderful relationships that are strong and loving if they choose to.

A small child when he is born, wont have the feelings sexually. Its the various things that are exposed that make him/ her change his feelings.. Firstly I would make sure that he is not exposed to such situations which would make him change his head.. Worst Case Scenario, I'd still love him as I did when he was born. bourne

As I said before everyone has the right to live how he/she wants... the only thing I don't agree with and which effects the society around the person in question is that gays must not adopt and have kids. It influences the kids wrong and they may be bulled by others to have two fathers or two mothers. REgarding marriage .. they do whatever they want as long as they don't disturb others!!

It is hard to suggest or say what to do. One have to be in the situation to say exactly. It is totally different to say or suggest what to do than being in and go through such situation. But I think everyone has his right to live his live as he/she wants. After all everyone is a human being and it is not fair not to accept them in the society or consider them as different. After all there is no were written that the norm in a relationship is between a man and a woman!!