My Fiance and I / myLot

United States

April 15, 2008 6:49pm CST

My Fiance and I would like to get married but we do not have the money for it, and I must resolve debt that was the stupid bank's fault (I am almost certain that many of you will be like 'yea right' but my debt is not the discussion here). We would like to have a proper wedding full of nice southern traditions with our own kick of the west. Our theme will be cowboy - cowgirl. I am very much wanting this but at the same time I find myself wishing I was already married to him. We are not financially set to get our own place (we want to go ahead and buy our own place) and neither are we for getting married. I think that it would be much simpler to go ahead and get married by the state and the have a formal wedding later, or just have a big reception. I also have an idea for finances, that he agrees on. For every $100.00 made, $50.00 of it will go towards our debt and $50.00 will go towards our expenses. On top of that, anything earned online will be split amongst debt and expenses. My questions are as follows: Does this sound like a plan? Is there any ways online that you can think of to help me? I am looking for something that I do not need a downline for, I Do not need to click or read, and is something similar to this.

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3 responses

rowansnow

@rowansnow (14)

• United States

16 Apr 08

I agree that you should keep your focus on mylot and the few places that actually do pay instead of all the scams. However, your plan needs some additional thought and calculations. You need a budget listing required expenses and all your debts as well as milestones for attaining your goals. Don't mar your marriage by adding to the financial mess you seem to be in. An alternative suggestion would be to take all your online earnings and split it in two halves appropriating one half for debt repayment and the other half for your marriage/wedding fund. It takes hard work and discipline but you can do it. Good Luck!

@SomeCowgirl (32191)

• United States

16 Apr 08

Thank you for your advice. I know we still have a lot to think about it, but i'm hoping by starting off small we can eliminate stressors. This way, although, it may be a little longer it won't be as stressing as we will be able to see and appreciate our earnings grow.

ufo_thexfiles

@ufo_thexfiles (723)

• Malaysia

16 Apr 08

Hi, I'm just like you, planning to get married. Me and my fiancee has been enganged since september last year and planning to get married next year. Like you, we also needs funds and now i'm working hard with my fulltime job and treats myLot as my partime job. A friends of mine has been paid by myLot and they show me their proof in their paypal account. Now I'm working hard in myLot to get more funds. My advise for you, keep focus on myLot and do your hardwork here. There are hundred thousands of site out there which claim that they are paying, but not even 5% that really paying. I have been wasting so many time with many website before and now finally I found myLot and keep focus on it. I didn't see any article that complaining about myLot doesn't paying. Peoples only complains about getting banned, topic deleted, rating has been down and so on but no one complaining about not receive payment. So keep focus on myLot.

@SomeCowgirl (32191)

• United States

16 Apr 08

This is true. I have already set my mind on keeping up on mylot, because I can already see that it's such a great site to earn money.