which is more unbearable for you, life without love or life without money?
@sutanhartanto (4122)
Indonesia
April 15, 2008 7:02pm CST
i believe both are very important in our life. but, truly, which is more practically important?
7 responses
@ruthinian (2309)
• United States
17 Apr 08
You question is a long-time debate-able topic. And I know a tricky one too. My answer on the other always varies too depending on the time and mood that the question is raised. But then, I think both are important. We need love to live... but with only love... we can't live life to the fullest. We have a saying, when the stomach is empty... love flies out of the window.
We need love and a person who has no love is the most miserable person in the whole world even if he has all the money in the world. But then, if all you got is love and you don't have the money to sustain and to provide for your family... you will also feel miserable and desperate.
Now, to answer your question... my life will be unbearable if I don't have love and money.
ON the funny note: Money isn't everything. Happy is the man you has no money and yet found a woman. But happy is the woman who found the man... who has lots of money. Cheers!
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
well, that's great opinion! i realize that in love and relationship, women is much more realistic than men. if we men are in love, sometime the most important thing (or even the only) factor we concern about is the love itself. we don't care if our girlfriend have no money at all, (coz usually the man is the party who will responsible the household expenses).
well, i really want to be the a happy man you described. but it means that the woman i find won't be the happy woman you described
@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
16 Apr 08
How are you gonna love If your heart is not able to beat. to make your heart beat you have to supply it with food. so, love does not put food on table while money does. that is my opinion. that is a good point you are making here.
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@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
16 Apr 08
you're right. btw, a hundred thousand years ago, there was no money in the earth. still, the hearts of pre-historic people were beating. i believe it's because of love. at least, the pre-historic babies got their food from their parents. the parents gave the food to their children because they love their children. in other words, the children didn't buy their food from their parents
@inked4life (4224)
• United States
16 Apr 08
You can't eat or get the essentials in life with love. Money is a must, love is a nice little reward which hopefully everyone gets to experience at one time or another in their life
@danzer (2723)
• Philippines
16 Apr 08
There was a discussion a week ago with the same theme and I will answer with the same or similar answer!
There can never be life without love. It's because of love that we have life. Life can be without money, life is more important than money!
@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
20 Apr 08
I can not live a life without love. I'll feel like a zombie. Yes, it would be difficult to live a life without money, but if you have someone to love, you would do anything to provide for them. You would be willing to work hard because you're happy. A life with money but without love, what are you going to do with the money, indulge yourself with more material things? We all know that money can never buy happiness. I don't think anyone would want that kind of life.
A life with love, and happiness, is a meaningful life, and one worth living.
@wnbwnbwnb (426)
• China
16 Apr 08
Definately life without money!
Love is only part of life,and one can live a happy life without love;
Money is a must in one's life,one can barely live witout money,let alone to enjoy a relationship!
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
16 Apr 08
i agree we can hardly live without money. btw, what i mean with love is the universal love.
well, can i say that we will be physically miserable without money, and mentally miserable without love?
@nghaipao (89)
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17 Apr 08
oh! its a very nice topic... for me I think I can live to some extent without money but I cannot live without love... yea of course for those are living in town or city for them may be money also but for me as I live in a village I am sure I can live without money but as I said before I cannot live without love even for a single second... thanks for very very beautiful topic I like it... bye have a nice day...friend...