Help! what do you do when you are attracted to his personality but not his......

beleive it or not..if his personailty is all that you are looking for..that alone will make him irristible. having that omg he is hot feeling will not last long esp once you see his personality flaws. having a guy with an amazing personality and everything you want is a goldmine. take it while you can

I was not attracted to my husband at all when we first met. I was attracted to his personality though and wanted him to be my friend. We stayed friends for three years and we both grew closer to each other and he asked me to marry him. I find him very attractive now.

I say go for it. Looks will fade over the years anyway, but if you get along otherwise you could have a great strong relationship. When I first met my husband there was not really a physical attraction, but we had great conversation. I almost passed on us dating but the connection was there. I wouldn't pass on it just because you aren't attracted phsyically. sometimes that even comes after you are attracted in other ways. love is blind eh? lol

Well, his personality is definitely the most important thing and the best looking people in the world get older and looks tend to fade. I guess it really all depends on how important looks are to you. Annie

if u like his personality then go for it relationship...it dont always got to be bout the looks...i know ppl who go out with ugly guys but its there personality they love

Just go for the relationship. You are supposed to look for someone who is compatible with you. It all boils down to personality. Looks really do fade! I'm sure if you have a hot girl now she won't look the same say after 20 years. I guess if you fall for a girl who is hot but is not really miss personality then there is a high propensity that the relationship goes down the drain in the long run. Why don't you just give this relationship a chance to blossom after all what makes a relationship work is coherence, compatibility, and being able to see each other eye to eye. Don't pressure yourself with just looks. You have to see beyond what meets the eye. As cliche as it may sound, you shouldn't be judging the book by it's cover. But if you really are into the looks and not the attitude i'm not against it too dude. I mean I want a hot girlfriend. Who can blame you, right? But just make a wise choice and think things true. Love comes in different packages. We have an ideal girl friend but that doesn't mean that's what we are going to get. Some of the biggest gifts we receive in life aren't the ones we expected to be nicely wrapped. Sometimes it comes in the most unexpected wrapping. Hope that helps and good luck!