Who do you think you are?

I really do not know who I am anymore. I am a wife and a mother and many other things each day in my life. I work seven days per week right now and alot of hours each day. alot of times I do not know if I am coming or going.

I know who I am. I always have. I consider that each 'role' I've had to play in life just another skill well learned, and so my essential being, the person I am, is not affected - just well rounded! lol My soon to be ex on the other hand has formed the opinion that I am nothing more than "an untrustworthy, irresponsible, glorified maid who is a pain to live with". He doesn't know me at all. This is his twisted view of me to make his own short comings as a well rounded person seem pale in comparison. Foolish man.

I actually know who I really am due to the fact that when I started my road of healing several yrs ago is was a key part of it...I do play all those roles so to speak but at the same time they are all me. I dont change who I am according to any given situation, I'm ALWAYS me but part of "me" is a wife, lover, mother, teacher, student etc etc etc..and any time I'm being anyone of those ppl I'm doing it as me, my way and so on. Does that make sense?

Well, I play too many roles in my life. I am a wife, a mother to my children, the eldest sister to my siblings, the eldest daughter of my mother, the business partner of my better half, etc., etc. I have too many responsibilities attached to each role that I play in life. The only role where I feel I can be myself all I like is when I am alone with my better half... no responsibilities, I can just be myself. I can say what I want, I can cry if I feel like, I can vent, I can complain, and he would listen to me as long as I have something to say. That's when I feel I am simply myself... and that's the role that I like best!

First and foremost, momma, I am a child of God. That's who I am. It has helped me know who I am, rather than think I know who I am. It has helped me become the best me I could be. It has helped me be the best wife I can be, the best lover, the best friend. All of that makes me the best TeriLee I can be, because there is not another one just like me. The real me is a powerful, empowered, intelligent, loving human being that tries to see the best in every situation and in everyone I come in contact with. My most favorite thought - I shall pass through this world but once. Any good therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again. I Know who I am. I don't have to wear masks or play games (unless it's time to dress-up and play). I live in the now - in the moment - but I remember how I got here, and where I would like to go next. I always want to leave things better than I found them.

Well, I like to think of myself as "PRINCESS OF THE WORLD" but that seems to annoy some people for some weird reason (LMAO)! The real me consists of all my different roles and so much more. Who am I - the best me I can be!

Hmm... I never really thought of looking at my self that way. Defining the roles I play to find the real me. And after defining all the roles I play, how do I recognize that the real me is not actually one of the roles I define? Hmm... Noting this down on my trusty pad so that I can ponder on it for a while. The roles that I play... hmm... Interesting! Thanks momma for the suggestion. This should give me some food for thought for a while!

I feel like I am "the keeper of all things" in our house. It drives me crazy sometimes that I'm always supposed to know where the remote is (even when I rarely watch tv). I'm supposed to know where something is if my husband can't find it. Where's this paper, where's my toy...on and on and on. I don't really like this particular job, but I believe it's part of a mother's description. I do agree, somedays, there is no me...it's just everyone else. IT's very hard for me to take time to find out who I am when I'm so busy with everybody else's stuff. Thank goodness for my best friend, she helps me take time for myself and she rescues me from screaming at my kids. She is a huge blessing to me. So, who do I think I am? I'll have to take some time to think on this one.

Good question, I have to think about that one. Who am I really? I'd like to think I am a caring person that loves her stability and family life. I am a passionate person that loves to make a difference in this world and I love being a teacher and a mother. So I think that is who I am. The many roles that I play also makes up part of me: mother, girlfriend, best friend, friend, daughter, sister, teacher - these are just a few of the many roles I juggle in my everyday life.

This is so strange, I have been asking myself the very same question for the last few weeks. I know for a fact that I am wife and mother but somewhere along the way I lost me. Something that I always promised myself that I would not do, and yet here I am knowing that I have done it. I do not know who I am at all, I really do not. I try to recall that person that I was before marriage and kids and I cannot find her at all!

I am still finding out as to what I am and will be like.

no one can replace my position as a lover to my boyfrien,as a daughter to my mom and dad, as a sister to my siblings, and as a yaya to my niece and the best is as a good follower of GOD

Well few years from now i can see myself standing infront of my students and teaching them what i know and they could possibly learn. I love teaching and i love children

In school I play a common role in teaching. I am a teacher,everyday I teach my students in school. I play an important role at home, father.I play some difference roles in the difference scenes. But I know who I am in life.

Dear friend, I do have many to think on me but yet nothing yet I had found on myself. Still I do know I a man who needs more and more and even if I have got it. More and more satisfaction for more betterment of my life. The what I think what I am is yet to find out the search is still going as my own qualities is varying according the situations I have been. Surviving for enjoying life by myself and making others to enjoy life.

I have different roles as daughter,employee,friends.Right now I am a little confused about some questions,like who i really am?why i am here,in this world?what am i supposed to do for my lifetime?on and on and on...And there is only one thing i can be sure currently,that is I need to a good daughter,a qualified employee,and a real friend.Maybe someday I will figure out who i really am.