disappearing!
@wonderfulburst13 (15)
Canada
April 16, 2008 2:49pm CST
i have a habit of disappearing for periods of times not talking to friends..like cutting of completely. since i was 14 ive been living on my own and never really building bonds with others..i all was just leaned on my b/f's and completely surronded my life around them. now im single and am having hard time.. i dont talk to anyone at all...
i recently emailed a person who i didnt realize at the time was an old friend...she emailed me back and told me that i never bother with her why should i talk to her now..
My question is what do i do? in my opinion i dont think its fair to get angry at someone when not knowing their situation..but i dont know!
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@dharma1 (35)
• United States
16 Apr 08
I understand where your coming from I have also lived on my own from a very young age. I find I have many acquaintances and not many friends. Sometimes I just want that time to my self and then when I want people around they tend to shy away. Like why bother now. However my friends are like me very independent and understand if I don't talk to them everyday. We talk when we feel like it and catch up. Perhaps you can find like minded people to have as friends that are not in need of your constant attention to continue a relationship.
@kasandra411 (69)
• United States
16 Apr 08
I understand why she's angry and i understand your side too. I'd just tell her that you aren't comfterable with getting really close with people so that you know, sorry i had to distance myself but thats just how i am. If a person can't understand how you are then maybe you two aren't meant to be friends.
