my girlfriend yells at me? what should I do?
By goergineo
@goergineo (1498)
Jordan
April 16, 2008 4:28pm CST
Well I am crazy about her and she is crazy about me but she sometimes (actually, many times) loses control and yells at me for stuff that are not that big deal. I told her about that many times but could not change it. it seems that she was born with it.
what should I do. Should I break up with her? considering I am crazy about her. or should I live with that for the rest of my life.
please tell me some.
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5 responses
@crystald510 (19)
• United States
18 Apr 08
Crazy or not about her, this yelling will soon drive you crazy. Try something like this! Look im willing to hear what you have to say, but as long as your yelling that isn't going to happen. If she keeps yelling, tell her to come talk to you when she grows up. When she's ready to talk peacefully you can take it from there. She's testing you to see how far she can take it. It's very disrespectful.
@kilani123 (864)
• United Arab Emirates
17 Apr 08
If you can not stand it man. I think you should break up. if you can live with it for the rest of your life. you take it.
@agfarm (930)
• United States
17 Apr 08
Goergineo.....Oh my God....Is that Italian?????
I love it!!!!!!
I yell at my Dad a lot ! But I love him Dearly!!!!!!
He just Shrugs it off. He doesn't get Offended. He knows that I'm Harmless.
I think Dad's are Fantastic don't you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
17 Apr 08
Maybe you need a more open line of communication?
Talking to someone else aside from you about this problem might be helpful too. This way she can learn to talk to you about how she is feeling rather than yell at you.
If it has gotten to a point that you are asking about breaking up with her over it; maybe she will work harder on getting her anger under control. It can be changed it just takes work and re-learning how to react to situations.
@monishavakil (1019)
• India
17 Apr 08
well, is she very possessive about you, as thats what happens when a person is extremely possessive about some one. well i would not break up over this if you are crazy about her, and if you have spoken to her about it i guess the only thing left for you to do is ignore her when she yells. just walk away for a while. this could make her realise that it really affects you.