what is love all about?
By ngiyan
@ngiyan (4)
April 16, 2008 10:06pm CST
i am in love with a man and our relationship is quite good for about 1 and a half years...then i noticed that he changed a lot, i can sense that he is in love with another girl.1 day i saw his wallet with a picture of this damn girl whom i dont know her either....he even denied that the girl was his ex, they met in Manila when he is undergoing his training and yet i am still his girlfriend....ohhhhhhh it really hurts but what will i do? i cried a lot but what can i do if the decision of his heart is not for me.....we still communicate through texting but there is a difference now...i have i little bit feelings for him not like before....am i correct in my decision?
1 response
@jeanniemay (1798)
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
Ngiyan,
Ohh, that I am not capable of answering, I am not sure if I have loved enough like you did.
I am in sympathy to what you feel. I don't just understand if you are already separated with the guy. Well, it doesn't matter though but if you are, I think it's not fair on your part.
You just have learned his unfaithfulness and you are still inlove with him? I would say, it's love. Yes, I would not disagree with you. On the other hand though, if you relentlessly offer and give your love with all the pain that is, he is not loyal to you and doesn't love you, what is love for?
I don't think it would be love if you forget all that is about you. Let go my friend and move on. Forgive him, forgive yourself and don't forget that love is all about loving and sharing our love not sacrificing it.
See you around more. Spread the love! 
