What would hurt you more?

@gcrew931 (228)
Philippines
April 16, 2008 10:59pm CST
I think this is one dilemma that I won't like to have. If you are faced in this situation what do you think would hurt you more? Is it when the girl or guy of your dreams say that they don't like you or He/she saying that she likes but unfortunately he/she is already taken. That is a very tricky situation right there so it is very interesting to hear from you about this topic. You are going to have to explain why you choose that situation as more painful though.
4 responses
sincere4frdship
@sincere4frdship (2228)
• India
17 Apr 08
well, Its really a very painful situation because I have been through this situation just one month before . Its gave me feeling of failure and so many things I've felt inside me which I can never express .... But only I can say that I don't want to face these types of situation in my life again ....thats all .... thanks !!!
subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
17 Apr 08
i think both are going to hurt. i think it would hurt more to know that the person you like does not like you. its a direct insult to your feelings as i guess.the other one is less painful as it was my luck that i came late.
jer31558
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
17 Apr 08
For me it would be when they say that they dont like you because it would leave me feeling hopeless. If they were already taken, there is the chance that the relationship would at some point in the future fail, and perhaps I would have a chance.
eigna9187
@eigna9187 (113)
• United States
17 Apr 08
i agree. saying they dont like you would hurt more. Them saying they like you but are already taken....thats pretty wrong. If im not good enough for them to break up with who they have when they like me...they must still like them and well, id feel bad for that girl. He's basically cheating in his head, and the guy doesnt seem like that "wonderful guy" after all :)