hostile encounter with my in-laws

@mommah (24)
Philippines
April 17, 2008 4:50am CST
I grew up as a loving person, and gets even more when i got married. Thinking of me being so loving and caring to my husband gave me a perfect smile on my face not until a hostile encounter with my in-laws. The kindling emotion between me and my husband slowly turns off. A hasty feeling of coldness gets in my nerves. Nomore loving wife...
3 responses
kalav56
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
22 Apr 08
It is very disheartening to read such experiences. Are your in-laws uneducated?
mommah
@mommah (24)
• Philippines
25 Apr 08
That's one thing that disappoint me. They're high educated... Graduate in one of the nicest school in our city.
sedel1027
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
17 Apr 08
Why are you letting your in-laws affect your relationship w/your husband?
mommah
@mommah (24)
• Philippines
18 Apr 08
Its not that im allowing them to ruin our relationship. Its just really affecting and no way for me to ignore it...
dhangski
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
Well mommah, I can relate to your situation. It happened to me when my in-laws transferred on our house which we are renting. I had been so kind to them them one day I heard them talking and saying things about me. I told my husband about it and he refused to listen to me. It happened over and over again. Then what I did is when my husband left to work abroad I transferred to another house far from where they are living. I ignored everything that they say about me coz I'm innocent. I talked to my husband and he listened to me coz someone told him about it.
mommah
@mommah (24)
• Philippines
18 Apr 08
Im right, right? that in so many ways they are affecting the relationship.And its sooo tiring and regretful.