Why are men so uncaring with their partners specially when they are pregnant?
By delaney36
@delaney36 (817)
Philippines
April 17, 2008 5:45am CST
This is not my personal experience coz i am blessed with such a loving and caring partner but i have observed this with my friends. I am just confuse why of all times men can be so uncaring when their partners are pregnant. Some are even ashame to escort their wives at this time. Why is that? Sometimes i can question if they really love their wife or not?
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@delaney36 (817)
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
maybe they discover they don't love them? Is that possible?
@TriciaW (2441)
• United States
17 Apr 08
I really haven't ran into this a lot. We my last two girls I was in bed with one for 5 months and the other for 6 months due to premature labor and their father was great to me. He packed me a lunch everyday so I wouldn't get up and make myself anything and he would fix supper at night when he got home. That was probably the best time in our relationship. If men behave badly during that time then maybe it is because they are not getting the attention they were used to. As a mom to be you become focused on the baby inside of you so maybe that threatens some men and when the attetion to them is gone they feel like they have lost their mate. I don't really know.
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@delaney36 (817)
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
Maybe you are right but i believe they should be more caring and loving at this time. This is the hardest time of their partner and they should be on thier side.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
26 May 08
As it has been already mentioned, not all men are like that. Those that are, unfortunately, are those that are not ready yet to face their responsibilities when their partners get pregnant.
They grow doubts with what they did and are regretthing it altogether. its such a pity and its always the ladies who are at the bd end of such relationships.
@graceandowen (1637)
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17 Apr 08
I think this does not apply to all men as some are very caring and affectionate whilst there partner is pregnant.Unfortunatly some are not and i have not got a clue why, i can only assume they think it is an easy ride, i just wish a man could be pregnant and experience child birth, they would soon change their point of view!
@ryshawneo (405)
• Philippines
26 May 08
in my case, i'm lucky having my husband in my life.. he is too caring when i'm pregnant! :)