What Type of Person(s) Irritates You or Get On Your Nerves?

Yeah, tell me about it. Several of my school mates last time kept swearing whenever they are trying to tell something; as if I won't believe them. I don't think that one needs to justify him or herself by swearing and that's something new here that I've seen in this discussion. Thanks for highlighting it. Screaming kids are bad, but screaming parents are more worst, ha! And true, like you said that it is really a bummer for those thinking that everything must be fitted to their tune and rhyme. Have a good day, sweetie.

Alright, then. Good night, mi lady and I hope you wakes up to a very good and bright, sunny morning..

I can't have a good day because it's 11:00 pm here. How about I wish me a good night and turn around and wish you a good day?

Hello ruby, does that young woman appears to be in her 20s or more? That's such a shameful behavior, but she seemed to be proud of it, yea? Thanks for explaining what ASBO is. I have learned something new today. I think that kind of behavior is really shameful and definitely irritating. Thanks for your input, sweetie.

Oh MY!! LOL!! That's indeed awful..:P

Well Zed...she is in her late 30s....and it seems that she is proud of it...i agree..its awful !!!

Hi subha, I know these types! And they get on my nerves as well for taking credit for what they aren't doing at all. I see this all the time in my line of work, and they are truly irritating. Thanks for sharing, sweetie and have a nice day. ;)

Hello palonghorn, thanks for your input on this. I hate those types that you have mentioned as well. I label the types as egoist and not willing to ask for fear that they will look too shallow. But I think they are not gaining any knowledge by not asking. Thanks again and have a nice day. ;)

Hello there dhangski, thanks so much for responding. Yes, I like that word conceited because there are people that I've come across who I feel they are behaving that way, but unfortunately, there's nothing that I could do to say them that they are that. It would be none too right. Hopefully they'll realize it themselves and change. Thanks for posting, sweetie. ;)

Thank you for sharing me this story. I honestly appreciate your time taking to type everything out and share this bittersweet story. However, I think you have done a very good job, my friend for leaving this so-called no-good guy. It's good to be a dreamer, but not an ego-dreamer and nothing beats me up than someone blaming someone else for their mishaps or blunder. What an arrogant family and no matter how high-class one is, it's always important to stay rooted to the ground for people will always look upon your morale the first thing. But I agree that nowadays, people don't go for morale and honor anymore; they just go for wealth and money and how much one have in order for them to reap the benefits too. It's a sad world, and thanks meiteoh for highlighting this story for I always love to look for inspirations for my blog and this gives me some kind of insights on another aspect of life. It's a real sad world we have filled with these kinds of people and the best is to shy away from them; no matter what they say about us. It's good to do one's own thing and prove the others wrong; indirectly or not. I think the phrase 'no man is an island' can be used for today's era and society and that to live just alone and not mingling with society could be good too at times. Because the more you mingle, the more people will know about your weakness and people are people. No matter what, they will gossip. That's why I prefer to be not too close with my friends. It's easier for friendship between guys than ladies, I can see that. My heart goes out to all ladies especially because they have to deal with this fake world and to come across their boyfriend's family and all. Don't be sad, meiteoh, you are such a nice young lady and I hope you will meet a nice, humble guy who can treat you right. And to treat your family right too. Take care and have a nice day. ;)

Oooops, you are married? I'm so sorry, meiteoh, LOL. I wish you a very happy and blissful life then with your husband. Yes, it's true that there are very bad hearted people out there, but we just have to make do with them around, since we can't really do much about it. I think your ex is reminded much of you that's why he doesn't want to be friends with you even. Don't worry so much, I'm sure he will come to his senses and realize what a great friend you are. Take care and have a nice day. ;)

And thank you for reading my ultra long post. I'll admit that I was hurt while I was with him and it continued even after I left him. The blame game is something which he and his sister do pretty well on their own. If I were to ignore all those horrible qualities, they are actually pretty decent people. I tell myself that people like this exist to teach us about ourselves, diversity and what we should not become. Y'know, despite how much I detest certain qualities in my ex, I still want to be a friend for him because I know that good friends are hard to come by and he's not such a bad guy really... Unfortunately, he doesn't think the same. *shrugs* Anyway, thank you for your well-wishes and don't worry. I found a pretty nice guy who loves me and my family, and I married him! XD

Good on you, bro..because you don't get 'flattered' easily, in that sense. I, too get irritated with those who seek answers but when we give, they will not oblige and acknowledge each time.

Back-stabbers are a wide group out there and it could really hurt if they are very sweet-laced talkers in front of you. I prefer the spunky and rude anytime, but some are loud but they do back-stab too. Therefore, I guess moderation in mingling with people is required.

You have given me such a wonderful answer, I'm so sorry for the late reply.

i must do pam,as those people i am talking about are in management as well,well most of them are.yes i get that too,sweet as candy to your face.cheeers sue

Ahhh, I hate those kinds as well, suehan. They are what we call the hypocrites, right. -sighs-..too bad there are still a lot of these sorts in the world today. :( Happy posting to you nevertheless.

Hello Pam, I know how you feel there, trust me.

You have given such good comments here. These types of people will not have many friends, I'm sure..

Yes, I agree. Like the saying goes, "respect yourself before others respect you".

Including not being their own friend. I have respect for myself and others and I pretty much like me. Life is hard with no respect and not liking yourself.

Hello cream. I'm fed-up that there are people like the ones you mentioned. I think they have nothing better to do, really. This is definitely sad, but true. I totally agree. What a sad world we have filled with these bunch..

That is simple yet direct. Me too, sweetie..

Yes, indeed me as well. Especially those backstabber and also those who manipulate and spun stories to cater to their best interests. I would rather have 0 friends in exchange for 10 or more of such.

i hate sugarcoating things.

Hello there boloroo. I don't like someone who likes to take advantage as well. That would be a real bummer.

I think those who like to put people down have nothing better to do and they seek happiness in seeing someone being put down. Great post there..

Hello bro..thanks for your response. I also dislike conceited people pretty much. I think that they think they are the only gorgeous people in this world, with the misconception that others will only look up to them and won't take no for an answer. I would rather get hitched with an average, next door type of lady rather than a trophy lady who's conceited.

Those are really types of people that irritate me as well. You have typed it out nicely. Thanks, my friend.

Sorry for the late reply here, tjades. I truly hate pretentious people and I would rather they talk upfront cruel in front of me rather than at the back.

I have come across many people including friends sadly that are always acting on the fence of acting and they will always use sweet words and lure me into helping them but when the time comes for me to seek help, all seem to run away. But luckily, I am still having my own pride but I admit there are friends whom aren't that way too. It's like a no-win and sometimes win-win situations. Thanks for your post..