Do you EVER WONDER WHAT YOUR LAST EX IS UP TO?

no im to busy to even worry bout him or any of my ex's to be honest with you...i dnt care for them at all

Yeah. i think about that every now and then if a conversation about them comes up. I often wander what they are doing with their life now and I also wander if they ever think about me also.

i never had been to any relationship. still i think if i had one, i may sometimes think how he person is doing now. is he happy or not.may be some questions in my mind.

Hello manya_pearl. Sometimes I wonder what he is up to. His friends whom I still are friends with update me with his life.

almost all of my ex bf's tried winning me back and each time, we'd go back with each other and then wont work again, so we'll break up again and it'd be final by that time. i never really cared what they're up to now, who they're with, but just in case i'll hear something, i'll be happy for them. i dont really remember past bfs. i dont remember their birthdays, or our anniversary. i dont remember our dates. im a great gf but im a lousy ex. ooops sorry. i always focus on the present one. ;-D

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. In the beginning, I really wanted to know because there was just this little something in me that wanted to see him go through the same amount of pain (if not more) that he put me through while we were dating. Over time, I sort of let go but once in a blue moon, I do wonder how he is getting on but in a more positive light. Instead of wanting to see him be all negative and what-not about himself, I actually hope to see that he has changed and moved on. It is a little sad that it doesn't seem that way...it's then that I tell myself that maybe I just shouldn't even think about wanting to know. Some things are better left unknown...

Yeah at times I do wonder what my ex husband is up to. I thought we were going to at least be on speaking terms after we divorced but when I see him he inores me.

Well, I think its natural that you feel that way to your ex. Especially if there something left for you in you heart. But I would suggest that you do it lesser and lesser over the next coming days for you to be able to move on and find someone who could love you. For as long as you hold onto something dear to you it would be hard for you to love again or be love by other people since you hold on to something that is not relevant in your life anymore.

Oh I'm so nosey, curious, I'd love to know what they all are doing now. I'd like to see what they like look like especially - don't forget I dated them years ago. It would be nice to catch up on family too.

I always wonder how all my ex boyfriends are (espicially the ones i was good friends with) i even see soem of my old boyfriends here and there. my ex was a best friend of mine for 5 years, but since my fiance doesnt like him, i couldnt continue that relationship. I always wonder if he found him a girl, and if she treats him right. I really care about my ex but not in the love kind of way to make a relationship go. He thought I was the one for him and that we were meant to be. so I also wonder if he got over that and found out that there is someone else out there for him. I just want him to have a great life.

I do find myself what they are upto now, whether they are happy in their life and whatjob they are doing now. I have come across my ex in a facebook group, I sent him a message asking how he is and put my name but he hasnt replied, if he did I was gonna say that it was for someone else but I didnt need to use that excuse!!

Not really, the only occasions when i wonder about my ex's are when something reminds me of a time with them etc, unless it is anything like that then they rarely cross my mind thankfully lol, most of them arent worth remembering

me too. i still think of my ex whereabouts and his status. im wondering if he already find a career in other place. if he already find another girl to love him. if he is eating well. if he manage his ulcer. if he's happy. i want to ask him this questions actually. but i don't have the guts to do so. its been 2 weeks that we broke up. i can't stop caring for him. though im starting to move on. im still thinking of him at times.