better man or better woman,r u?

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Send someone to love me /I need to rest in arms/Keep me safe from harm in pouring rain/Give me endless summer/Lord I fear the cold/Feel I'm getting old before my time/As my soul heals the shame/I will grow through this pain/Lord I'm doing all I can to be a better man/Go easy on my conscience/'Cause it's not my fault/I know I've been taught to take the blame/Rest assured my angels/Will catch my tears/Walk me out of here I'm in pain....... lyrics above is the song named"better man" sang by Robbie Williams, i quite like this song and when i play this song i will sing follow it, williams said that he need someone to love he and he need to rest just keep he safe from harm.......r u guys have been go throught this kinda feeling,? will u guys grow through pain.? honestly for me, i believe pain will lead my growing,i have heard a word said that once u refuse growing u will suffer from the growing, for me currently, i still sometimes canot figure out from the reality, the reality always make me feel sad and cry, i think it is just my unmature, how i wish i could grow through all the pain.