Does maariage change a man?

@catmint (628)
Singapore
April 17, 2008 10:33pm CST
I am asking this question in the traditional sense of word. Recently the IT guy in my office got married. The moment he announced the date the wedding is taking place, he started to get totally ridiculous. He would delegate his duties to colleagues who are outright helpful, and he throw tantrums as and when he likes. After coming back from his honeymoon he even got bolder and sidestepped my supervior by sending out an email to everyone in the office stating that I am hereby appointed to be his P.A. and will be taking his messages in his absence. When confronted he will start yelling that if I don't want to help so be it. All this from a man who used to blush when he sees a lady in a bikini in a newspaper ad. My boss used to call him "an angel" What the h* happened?
7 responses
pooh08
@pooh08 (671)
• Vietnam
22 Apr 08
If the man love the woman, when get married, he will change character for suit with his wife. If he doesn't love her, I think he doesn't change his self
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catmint
@catmint (628)
• Singapore
23 Apr 08
Thank you for your response.
Aimeena
@Aimeena (9)
• Russian Federation
25 Apr 08
http://beforeandaftermarriage.com ;)
catmint
@catmint (628)
• Singapore
27 Apr 08
Hahahaha.... Well-said.
subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
22 Apr 08
i think it changes a person, irrespective of gender.i think many people changes like this. may be marriage is like taking an U turn for them.there are laways exceptions.
catmint
@catmint (628)
• Singapore
23 Apr 08
So far I have not worked with newly weds who turn into total brats so it is totally beyond me to understand such behavior.
realgem1
@realgem1 (260)
• India
22 Apr 08
I just got married 7 months ago , and i feel there is kind of change in my life and i feel i am more responsible and i have become very disciplined,I often feel i have some one with me who can share my feelings and share my sorrows as well. Its good feeling if your partner is very understanding and pampering.
catmint
@catmint (628)
• Singapore
23 Apr 08
Congratulations on your getting hitched :) It is good to hear that marriage made you a better person.
rdshinde05
@rdshinde05 (124)
• India
18 Apr 08
marriage changes a man totally .i have seen many examples in which the man changes after marriage.he does not meet his friends regularly also his behaveor with other family member changes
catmint
@catmint (628)
• Singapore
23 Apr 08
I wish the changes was for the better. It is sad that the whole office has to suffer because of his marriage.
ankilla
@ankilla (325)
• India
22 Apr 08
After marriage there will be change in the way of thinking and working, as of now he is a free bird as he gets marriage he has to answerable for every deed. some people will get manage themselves but others cannot they will not be able to take orders from work side and office and they get frustrated and start acting like this. He need to make a balance from his marital like and other life.
catmint
@catmint (628)
• Singapore
23 Apr 08
I believe you hit the nail on the head on this one. Good people probably try to balance themselves, bad ones just pass their frustrations on, as in this case.
suddenurge
@suddenurge (17)
• United States
18 Apr 08
Maybe he is stessed out for fear he has made a critical mistake in the one he married? Although this sounds like a very serious case..maybe he will calm down and realize he made the right decision; or maybe he will regret it and change it. Seems like worry about the marriage would be the most blatant thing to suspect...