Again and Again and Again!
By ozzeth
@ozzeth (940)
Philippines
April 18, 2008 12:06am CST
A very considerate partner. Can always give forgiveness inspite of all the things that the other party did.
She accept, listen and can give chances all over again.
The other party seems take advantage her patients. Doing it again and again and again. It's too much and even you can't consider it anymore. She just cry in the corner of her room and keep it by her self. Her partner doing things that no respect with her. She love and afraid to lose the guy into her arms.
How many times she saw her man with other girls. Sometimes she saw it kissing and making sweet thing to the other party. She don't want to lose the father of her child but until when this guy will stop????? Always asking forgiveness and always forgiven. But then never stop and always repeating his mistakes. Until the patients of the girl is got lose and want to be wild in making a revenge.....
What do you think the girl do? or did? can you make a continuation on how the girl make her revenge??? If you are the girl what you will do???? How will you make your revenge?
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9 responses
@traengle (144)
• United States
18 Apr 08
I am that girl...and leaving is always easier said then done. I wonder how much more I can take, I suspect it even if he isn't doing it, if I say nothing all is well but it gets harder and harder to keep it bottled inside. I'm still hanging on in some false hopes that he will give me back the same respect and love I give him.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
18 Apr 08
Wow i feel sorry for that girl. I cant really say how it wud end, if that gurl is that girl in which you have written, she has no braveness....It cant b me, coz i just cant forgive a person, so consider me a not-very-good-partner, but i cant forgive, once, okay, twice, uh huh, not more than that, if he doesnt chage, i am better off without him.Love involves trust, faith and yes even commitment, but from both the sides, it cant b one-sided!!!
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
18 Apr 08
i think its the problem with some. for the sake of the child they seem to bear the pain themselves. they just forgive the partner for whatever they do. i think there are some insecurity about the feelings.But i never support this. women should be able to support themselves and just don't give these unfair chances.
@renee0909 (152)
• China
18 Apr 08
First, I feel very sad about the story.If I were the girl, I would leave him. I think it could be hard as I suppose she loves him very much, otherwise she may bust up with him long before. But, she has to leave him and try to find another guy. Lfe is limited. Next time, never get hurt from the same guy again.Start a new life.
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@edgyk8inmomma (2157)
• United States
19 Apr 08
I think you're misplacing the word love for door mat. You can love some one with all you have. But if they don't have the same love to reciprocate, then the relationship is meanigless. Even Jesus said don't throw your scraps to the dogs. That means you can ofer and offer, but if there is no change, you must move on.
Yes, I get what you're saying about revenge, but I think you misunderstand love.
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@recycledgoth (9894)
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18 Apr 08
Stray once and ask for forgiveness, ok.
Stray again and again and your are out on your ear.
Seriously, no one should have to put up with this kind of behaviour, even for the sake of a child. Time to kick him out.
@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
18 Apr 08
The person has been forgiven enough. It is very disrespectful of the guy to continue what he is doing to the girl. He has no intention of stopping and is taking for granted the girl will continue to forgive him. It sounds like she loves him a lot but love doesn't always take care of problems in a relationship. Revenge only works to make the girl unhappy. Forgive him in the heart so that the girl can go on with her life. But tell the guy that it is over and move on with her life. A child should never be a reason to stay in a relationship. The child can feel the tension in the house. By thinking about revenge the girl will only make herself unhappy. If the girl ends the relationship don't let him know that it has affected her in any way. Although the heart may be torn in two don't give him the satisfaction. Some guys are not able to be faithful to one mate. But that is still no excuse for cheating on the one that they chose to spend the rest of their life with.
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@Linda4ualways (2282)
• United States
18 Apr 08
If it were me, I would leave my battles to my God. The more he is forgiven, the more he will do. That is just how it is. She has to have respect for herself first and want better for herself as well. I know how it is being in a relationship with a man who cheats, treats you like garbage, totally disrespects you. But he did one thing that was the final nail in the coffin, and I left him and it has been 8 years since. Tell your friend not to seek revenge, rather to have a personal talk with her God asking him for a way out.
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