can you easily say no.......
@sutanhartanto (4122)
Indonesia
April 18, 2008 12:46am CST
if you don't agree about something, or if you don't want to do what others ask? or you're a kind of person that always try to avoid saying no to keep your relationship with others undisturbed?
7 responses
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
18 Apr 08
Well it depends on the person I deal with. If she/he is my friend well I'll be frank with them and say no in a nice way following that the explanation I have to say. But when i deal with a person who I meet once maybe I will not say anything against her talking.
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
yes, i agree with you. we should more polite and careful in expressing our think with the people we don't know before.
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
it's good if we don't night to fight with ourselves in expressing what we think. thx for being here
@mnsrwt123 (2057)
• India
18 Apr 08
Well, its always depend upon my mood, if its my close friend and i just wanted to pull their legs then i always oppose what they say, and try to fight with them...LOL and if they are just serious then I just have to be kind to do any work they ask me to do.
Have Fun!!!
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
i usually do that also. sometime i show my disagreement and keep arguing regardless how logic their opinion just to make them upside...thx for being here. have fun!
@lindaway224 (91)
• China
18 Apr 08
Once in a while, I did. But I cannot easily say no usually to my parents or friends.
as you said, avoid saying no to keep the present relationship.
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
yes, i understand. sometime the circumstances don't allow us to express our genuine opinion. thx for being here
@ximeiguang (168)
• China
18 Apr 08
That will be anguished for me to indulge others without my consent.
Saying "No" is one's droit, I think. If you say "yes" against your will, the result will be the continuance of your suffering.
To hurt yourself, it would be better to reject others. And I also think doing things limpingly with other person is not a respect for them.
@YennLing (112)
• Canada
18 Apr 08
Uhm, I wont say that I dont agree with them, I will simply say 'I think its not a good idea'. Of course if that someone asks for a bad favor then I wont do it, I will try some excuses which are polite enough and not offending others. Everyone has to realize that every person has different opinions, so I wont be afraid to say no. If that someone cant accept then it's better he/she complains now, sooner or later I will say another no again since everyone thinks differently. A good friend wont consider diversity as disturbance, he/she will appreciate what I think and will always keep our relationship well.
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
well, that's a nice and diplomatic way to say no. i would rather to use that way also. thx for sharing your opinion here
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
20 Apr 08
that's good. it's more comfortable for us to be frankly and assertive. thx for your response.
