Ameican woman.. get away from me..!!!!!!!!!

If you think three calls is a huge amount and constitutes a comittment I do not think you should give your phone number to anyone. you are clearly not ready for that step. You should not meet her, as you are clearly not interested in a friendship or anything else.

do not answer her calls and I think she would understand.

Yes I guess I've been into this kind of situation before. The guy has my number already though before we met. After the very first time he saw me, he kept on texting and calling asking when are we going to see each other. I mean, I have nothing against of meeting again but don't remind me everyday because you're like sucking me. I never met him again actually. I decided not to anymore though after my decision we still talk for a couple of days then slowly I slipped.

It sounds to me that this person is lonely and needs a friend. You happened along. Here's what I would do in your situation. I would meet her at the mall as planned, and perhaps go for coffee. Then, during the chat, I would just ask her gently, if she minded you pointing out something to her that's bugging you. Given license, then proceed to tell her that as much as you enjoy her company, you have commitments and quite a heavy schedule, so would she mind too much, not calling you unless there was something important she wanted to say. Tell her you'll meet her from time to time, schedule permitting, and you will ring her when you have a free moment. Be gentle... I think she's clinging on to you as a welcoming light in the dark, my friend. Besides, you can't run away... she has your phone number!!! I hope this helps and that you can manage to sort things out. Brightest Blessings.

Hello goergineo, I just want to say that I don't know how old you are, but if you are young, this is the way it is theses days. Grant it, it shocks me. I work around a lot of young people an am blown away, by their boldness, and relationships becoming initimate in less than a month. Sometimes they come to me for advice, because I'm older, but they don't listen, like they know it all, and you come from another world. All I can say that if this is making you uncomfortable you need to say so now, because it will onlt get worse. popcioclecold

I have not been in any situations like that. But I would tell you not to answer her calls until you mmet her. It does seem like it's a little bit pushy. But you should just let some of her calls go unanswered and then meet up with her so you could get to know her better.

You should tell her the truth about how you really feel.