would u mind her/his past?

To have a future you must forget the past or at least leave it there in the past, if you truely love someone you will overcome anything. My partner was a bad boy when I met him but when we got together that all changed I gave him the chance her deserved and he didnt let me down if they couldnt leave their past behind them then no I dont think I could either but a chance has to be given if you want a furture with them

It depends on how extreme the past was. If I feel that it might strike again I would think about it twice before becoming too intemate.. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't be a friend... Although it has never influenced how the way I feel before...

If you're only dating its ok. when you hook up with him/her its another thing. Its ok to love someone like them, and its ok to give them a chance, because everybody deserves a second chance. However if they break your heart and has broken their promise of loving only you, then you have nothing to be ashamed of, because you only loved them. Although one should be a little bit wary and careful in dealing with them, because they could not be satisfied with only 1 person...for me its ok to date them and if they prove to be worthy, then it's time to accept their past themselves too.

i think you just need to learn his past and understand it, but bear in mind don't be vulnerable, keep your feelings in safe because if problems, i know problems, my occur eventually if he doesn't change you might get depressed if you already give out your trust to him, and that make you lose.