Okay, once again...do my subjects offend? Bore? What?????

Try posting more thought provoking questions. In my experience it is not who posts the question as much as the question itself. This is the first post by you I've read, so I have nothing against you and am not saying that you are posting "dumb" things, but from the sound of it you are posting personal questions. This, from what I have seen, is not the place to do such a thing. On Mylot, again from what I've seen, it is best to post general questions such as "what do you think about X" or "I think X is X, what do you think?" or "I'd like to know how you like to experience X, Personally I prefer it XXXXXXX but I know some people like it XXXX, XXXXX " and stuff like that. You've got to give people room to respond to what you say, or make it especially interesting in some way..... Of course, I've got about the same number of posts as you, so my perspective thus far could be COMPLETELY wrong lol Dan

It takes a while to be known on Mylot. There are certain people who post many discussions and answers each day. They develop a following. There are also groups who only respond to their friends' discussions. And then there are people like me who never get the hang exactly. If you check my profile you will see that I get very few responses to my discussions, even though I have been a member for over a year. So I seldom post one but I have a lot of fun responding to other people's discussions. So hang around a while and see what you like best, posting discussions or responding.