Difficult situation

China
April 19, 2008 7:47am CST
I'm confronting a very difficult situation:after failure in college entrance exam which was imposed on great significance, I entered a university far from satisfaction,with classmates having no interests in study,I always study alone or just have only one friend who used to be my roomate in high school as company.I'm just at sea as most of my former schoolmates entering some most prominent universities enjoy their splendid age.Sometimes I encourage myself that I'm still an excellent girl,always being eminent in study and a great number of fields in my life,a sweet child gifted by God to my parents who I'really love and care all the time.However sometimes,the days did fly gloomily,as I'm worried about that whether I'm qualified in such an intensively competive society ,especially hugging a dream of being somebody some day.Little acticities fascinate me,little classmate love to discuss some professional topic with me instead of computer games , TV plays and movie stars;in all nothing serious can we share.
1 response
fredgame
@fredgame (1260)
• China
19 Apr 08
Hi yangmay, never give up. something good can out of you persistant hardwork and i think just work with the one serious classmate you have at present. could you have tried again and you could pass. i've a friend who wanted to offer a certain course in a certain university but couldn't reach that grade, he then entered another university and still wrote the exams and got the grade and applied for the course in the university he targeted though he did one year in the former university. it pays to persevere and success never comes without hardwork. you continue with that you'll make it in life. good luck.
yangmay
@yangmay (27)
• China
6 May 08
Hi fredgame,it's very kind of you for your encouraging story as well as your attention. i'm now working hard to make some difference.the problem is just about the methord, which i always doubt its effect and efficience. i make most of my time, practicing everyday,on the threshold of developing some remarkable habbits. however as little progress was made, i was under the upsetness whether the effort is intensive enough. what is worse, i invariably flow back to the situation before i spur myself. your reply is so helpful,which stimulate me again, catering for my request of continual spur.thanks again.