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I think there is lacking with that kind of relationship. You like playing it safe. What about commitment? If the one you love you found out that he/she is having an affair too because he/she thinks same way as you are. Just in case something is wrong with you he/she can just switch just like that. It will surely hurt right. In a loving relationship commitment is one thing we should consider. What about risk well its always there and you should just be prepared for accepting whatever happens.

Dear friend, I hope love becomes more valued and precious when we have only one and that too the only unique one for us. The great love story of Romeo and Juliet became great lovers only because they have only one percious and valued love that too single one. The love of Shajahan and Mumtaz ended in building up Taj Mahal which is considered as one wonder of world. Hence I feel to have more than one lover might be as not sincere to any of them and if they want all to marry a single person I hope others will be disappointed.

I agree with you friend there is nothing wrong in having more than one lover.

In my own opinion, it is wrong to have more than 1 lover. Relationship is not like something to play with, it is something that you share with one person.

It's wrong to have more than one lover. I think it's betrayal. And loving many lovers at the same time, that's so rude. Even if your lover disappointed you, you shouldn't love more than one person. If you don't like that one then leave that lover, before it become more complicated. When you love two lovers, or three, or more... what do you think may happen if they caught you??? It may just hurt each others feelings and cause such great angriness.

if your reason on having more than one lover is for them to like your spare tire well, i dont think that u will ever find somebody to love. when u get old u will just end up with nobody beside you. you may have many lovers right now, but you dont really know what is their reason for being with you right now.. maybe its just because of the fun or living life as of the moment... next time you know it, your so called lovers also treat you as their spare tire and youll be ditch by them before you know it..

If you go into a relationship expecting to be dissapointed you will end up being dissapointed. Theres a lot wrong with having more than one lovers, lack of trust never being able to fully give yourself either physically or emotionally to everyone will end up in you being dissapointed or hurt when they get fed up of having to come second to other people even if they arent aware you sleep with other people it will soon start to show because I truely beleive you cant give yourself fully to more than one person without one of them not getting everything deserve from a lover/partner

I tryed it before,but then I stopped it.I get the point that love is one to one.If you decide your lover,try your best to love him.It can be happier.