how do you aprroach a girl u find attractive ?
By Eacync54
@Eacync54 (86)
United States
April 19, 2008 2:27pm CST
I really dont have problems getting girls but the one that i find extremely super hot , i find it a little intimating to talk to them.. Give me advice of how i should approach a girl like that... I dont want to sound cheesy by using lines like " girl, you and me equals better math".
2 responses
@jairgirl (2877)
• United States
20 Apr 08
that's a pretty cute topic 
i used to like a guy who approach me naturally, what i mean by this is someone who looks at me directly in my eyes, smile naturally and talk like an intelligent/educated man. i dont want someone trying hard or pretending that he is a cool guy coz it irritates me and i know that i am not getting the real person.
i dont know about other girls out there but i tend to talk more or entertain a conversation with someone that i feel is genuine. i guess you already know what i mean.
i dont want to entertain any man now coz i am happily married but i still have the same belief if i am looking for a friend, i like it to happen naturally than being pushed it to happen.
takecare and good luck!
i used to like a guy who approach me naturally, what i mean by this is someone who looks at me directly in my eyes, smile naturally and talk like an intelligent/educated man. i dont want someone trying hard or pretending that he is a cool guy coz it irritates me and i know that i am not getting the real person.
i dont know about other girls out there but i tend to talk more or entertain a conversation with someone that i feel is genuine. i guess you already know what i mean.
i dont want to entertain any man now coz i am happily married but i still have the same belief if i am looking for a friend, i like it to happen naturally than being pushed it to happen.
takecare and good luck!@Eacync54 (86)
• United States
24 Apr 08
what if that doesnt work? Not all girls like the same thing.
@jairgirl (2877)
• United States
25 Apr 08
true, that is why i said i dont know about other girls.
i think if the man is intelligent enough he can have a feel of what kind of the girl he wants to approach with and he can have an idea if a subtle way will work or the obvious way.
obviously, not all girls are the same and that's what makes us special LOL! the guy just need to feel and look beyond what kind of person the girl is and use that as his leverage to approach the girl.
if that doesnt work, maybe keep trying till he find which one works best BUT must be the same girl though or else it will not be good coz not all girls are the same.
wish you all the best and keep us posted which one works.
takecare!
@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
20 Apr 08
Find the part in you that's pretty darn hot and you won't have a problem. But be yourself and don't act like - you said it - cheesy! Maybe in the beginning be subtle, when you walk past her say her name when you say hello, make her see that you notice her. See what unfolds. If it doesn't work - then get more direct, but hey often too direct is a turn off. Goodluck.
