Planned or spur of the moment??
By aquajules4
@aquajules4 (583)
April 20, 2008 3:54am CST
The first time you made love to your love, did you plan the evening or did it just happen?
It's been 3 years since i was with a guy so i'm a little nervous about going to the next step in my relationship, even more so now as i'm sober so it's very different.
I want it to be special but i know the first time maybe is not that good as your both nervous. Just wondered what the best way to approach this.
Any advice on this will be great thanks, even wether on the sofa or in the bedroom?.
3 responses
@kezabelle (2974)
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20 Apr 08
No we didnt plan it it just happened and it was amazing, I think if you plan it it gives you chance to be nervous and that can ruin things a little so relax see what happens but if its going to be good it will be no matter what
@aquajules4 (583)
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24 Apr 08
thanks for your in put will take on board when i meet someone new. As this relationship does not seem to be going anywhere.
@aquajules4 (583)
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20 Apr 08
Yes i think your right, it was very close to happening today but his sofa is just too small and uncomfortable. So i think i need to drop a few hints about the bedroom.
Thanks for you advice
@ozzeth (940)
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20 Apr 08
its just happened never planned. You know the connections is there..you feel love and then when your body touch to the other body or even just your hands. You feel something different. Your body talk to each other. Your mind and your eyes show the feelings then....thats it.
@aquajules4 (583)
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20 Apr 08
It's a new relationship, he has said that he does not want to rush it. But the feelings i have for him are electric and he seems a little nervous so.
But i think perhaps a nice massage or something like that might help the nerves a little what do you think?
