Do you find life always turns out to what you want?
By cutieweii
@cutieweii (374)
Malaysia
April 20, 2008 9:40pm CST
For me, the answer is Not Necessary do!
Reason being, I found the more I wanted things to turn our in way 'A', most of the time it will turn out to be 'B' unless I worked very very hard into it. Of course working hard included the scarification as well.
What about you? Are you the lucky person that do not even do anything to get what yu want?
5 responses
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
21 Apr 08
your right not everything we want is we can get, we need to work even do we know that we can but we are still thinking for the other day what will happen & how we can managed to live.
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
21 Apr 08
yup, my sister, she is so lucky to found one man & can give her all what she want & she is so happy even my brother in-law, actually im feel jelous right know because they are in vacation in my town, my family keep on calling me to join them but i dont have enought money for the airfair im thousand miles from them.
@cutieweii (374)
• Malaysia
22 Apr 08
No worries, I believe that the current stage won't last too long. So long as we put in more effort than others do, hopefully it turns out a better fruit..
@cutieweii (374)
• Malaysia
21 Apr 08
Yea, I agree with what you said. But, do you happen to have friend who are very lucky in most of the aspect. I have a cousin who are very lucky person, she was born in rich family, life goes very smooth with the good shelter of her parents, and now that she is just married to a good husband. I admit how I wish I'm her....lol
@cutieweii (374)
• Malaysia
21 Apr 08
Yea, that's the uncertainty of life and I like how you put yourself in this aspect, not to bother too much and become stress free. Stress is another factor that most people cannot avoid, including myself. Perhaps we think too much.
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
21 Apr 08
of course you have to think too much these days its manditory , like you cant possibly become stress free now , maybe back in modern days but back then there were flaws too so theres never a pefect moment to me anyway ..i think we all learn the way of life that if we REALLY REAAALLLLY want something that bad we have to go thru these challenges like unexpected events like bills , broken down car, 100+ up on the rent , etc etc ..
@cutieweii (374)
• Malaysia
21 Apr 08
Emm..it seems that's challenge of living to have a life we desired. I'm still in search of person who claim they are the lucky one in every aspect
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
no.. sometimes life has its own mind.. kinda even contradicting what i wanted out of "my" life!!!
i worked really hard for this i want, and i hope so much for the future... that's all i can have right now.. work hard for it and wish for the best to turn up in my life.
@cutieweii (374)
• Malaysia
21 Apr 08
Yea, that's what we always been told, we need to work hard in order to be success or achieve our goal. And that's how much we hope to have right now, achieve what we want. So, we have to cheer up each other for our journey of success. LOL, thanks for reply
@pillusch (1147)
• Mexico
21 Apr 08
Absolutely not. Now, when saying this I don't want to sound like some fatalist who in the end doesn't care what he does since the outcome of his actions are out of his hands anyway. No, I don't believe this, but to believe that life gives me the results I want would be laughable, too. Sometimes I get what I want, more often than not I don't. And I'm beginning to believe that that is not necessarily in correlation whith the amount of effort I put into whatever it is what I'm doing. I'm just getting to a point where I approach things in a more relaxed fashion and where I keep myself open for surprises. Because in the end that's most likely what I get.
@cutieweii (374)
• Malaysia
21 Apr 08
I have a few friends and relatives who are relatively lucky I would say, they seems to get what they one only in first try which mean effort doesn't really correlated with achievement sometimes. ha...After reading your comment, I just realized that perhaps you are right, maybe they approach things in a more relaxed way and maybe stress is the main factor that caused adverse effect.
Thanks for responding!
@cutieweii (374)
• Malaysia
21 Apr 08
Initially, I have the same thought as you but when you think carefully. You will realize that it is not always the case as that's just the failure that will make us understand a lot of things that we wouldn't have know if we are success easily, isn't it?
