Keeping the friendship going
By gcrew931
@gcrew931 (228)
Philippines
April 21, 2008 1:45am CST
Have you ever experienced bumping into old friends that you haven't seen in years? It does feel odd at some point and you might also be wondering if you still have the same closeness and the same bond as you had before. So, I guess it's about time I ask as to how you keep the friendship alive even if you don't see each other anymore? What is also the best topic to talk about because I find it awkward and odd to talk to someone that I haven't seen for the longest time. Of course I will be marking the best response. Thank you very much!
1 response
@dolce_vita78 (8062)
• Philippines
21 Apr 08
I do have friends that I have not seen in a long time. This doesn't mean that we do not have any form of communication though. I do communicate with most of my friends (especially those who are far away) through phone, email or chat. So when I get to meet them, there's not much to really catch up on. For those that I do not have any means of communicating with, it's a different story. When I get to bump into these friends that I have not seen for a long time, questions flood my mind and I just keep asking them questions. One question would lead to another and we end up realizing there's really much to catch up on. You can always ask how they've been. What are they busy with. Where they are working. If they are already married or do they have kids and how many kids. You can also ask them if they are have been in contact with your other friends. I guess those are the most basic questions you could ask and believe me, each question would lead to other topics and you will not really run out of anything to talk about.
