Husband wants to swing...

I've been in this situation. I've tried the threesome thing. It almost ruined my marriage. You really need to be comfortable in your own skin, in your marriage, and with your third party. Even then, it sometimes doesn't work. I've seen some marriages split and the wife becomes a lesbian. It's really crazy. I got lucky and we're still together, but not without a lot of trust issues. Would I recommend it to anyone, no. Even if you try it once, you could get really jealous seeing him with someone else. It may not seem like that, but that's exactly it. I guess it's all about what you feel comfortable doing. If you're asking for other's opinions I would say you're not very comfortable with the idea. And I think you should tell your husband that. Just let him know that you're not comfortable with the idea. He should understand. :)

Personally this would never happen in my realationship no matter how bad my partner wanted this to happen .Tough crap. I think its sick. If you feel comfortrable with it, then its ok. But if not I WOULD not give in.

I think that is a bit weird... Its different watching your wife with someone else than just watching a random couple.. I mean is he ok with the fact that another guy will be doing it with you?? Would you be ok if he does it with another woman?

never experienced this one. maybe you need to talk to your husband more about this. things will certainly be different after this. just give it a lot of thought before actually proceeding. there might be a lot of repercussions if you do engage in such activities.