i m going to be a father this winter

Congratution pankaj49!!! They say being a father or parent is not an easy job, well that is true. I am a father of four two daughters and thwo sons. I am not a perfect father and there is no man can claim that he is perfect father. You can't make your child a perfect because every human being has flaws. You just have to love your child just the way he/she is and that will come easily because he is yours right. Just treat yourt child the way you want to be treated. And remember whatever your doing wether it is good or bad your child will also do thesame because it us parents who will be the first to influence them. happy fatherhood

Everybody is going to try and give you advice, on how to be a parent! Don't let the pressure of this misguide you into making wrong decisions! Go with what you feel in your heart, and let your mind and heart work together into being a successful parent! Don't be disgusted when making a wrong decision, we all learn by experience, and that in itself makes us a better parent and human being!

i am a dad of a two year old child. it is not really that easy to advice because every child is different. what i can say is be patient. i am a grouchy guy but i learned to be patient since the day he was born. he gives us sleepless nights and cryful days specially when he was much younger. it was not easy for he only knows how to cry and to suck milk. now that he is two years old we both adjusted to a cool level where we can eat food that we both enjoy. we can go out and eat fries and ice cream. being a good father is spending quality time with your child and patient is a must. goodluck with you pal.

To start , Congratuations!! Just be there for your child and spend as much time with him as you can. Being a parent can be very trying so patience is something you have to have. That's something I had to learn. Once that child is here it will come so natural to you.

Congratulations Pankaj, Kids learn a lot from their Parents and hence, it is important for you to be a role model. Get your act in tact, if not already and you have to demonstrate how your kids wanna be. This is my opinion.