What would you let your children read?

United States
April 22, 2008 1:10pm CST
There are so many books in the library these days, and some of them are quite explicit. Would you allow your children to read questionable material beyond their age?
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• United States
22 Apr 08
When I was young I read whatever I wanted because my mother didn't know english and didn't pay much attention to what I was reading. I read books that were way above my age level and it was okay. Now with my brother and sister I get them some books to read and I make sure that they have no explicit things in them. Things have changed a lot since I was a little girl and I don't really like them to read such explicit things. But that's my opinion.
• United States
23 Apr 08
Yeah I know and when you go and take out a library card for a child you have to fill out a paper. The parent gets to decide what kind of books the child chooses. So if you decide to only let them take out kids books those are the only books that they can take out, if they take an adult book to check it out they won't let them because that wasn't specified in the application. I don't know if this has changed but this is what happened when I first went to get my first library card when I was little.
• United States
24 Apr 08
In a way, I wish all libraries would provide this type of service to prevent children from being exposed to material they shouldn't be reading until they are ready to handle it.
• United States
23 Apr 08
Yeah, things have changed quite a bit. I'm concerned about the trashy type books children can check out in the library. My personal opinion is that children should be accompanied by their parent and the parent approves the book prior to check out.
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
22 Apr 08
My first thought is, they are reading which is always a good thing. If I saw an eight year old with "The Exorcist" for example I might suggest something a bit more age appropriate but if they really wanted to read it I would let them. If it appeared they could understand it then let them. Be prepared to discuss with them questions they might have but other wise if you try to tell them no you could turn them off reading which I had one teacher do. When I was eight I had to do a book report. I read "The Hobbit" by Tolkien. The teacher told me I couldn't do the report on it because it was too complicated. I had to read something under a 100 pages. I found another book but it wasn't what I wanted to do. I didn't read another book for two years. I had another teacher in 5th grade that read to us and she turned me back onto reading. My thought is let them read.
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
25 Apr 08
Exactly, one has to be ready for any questions. Of course if you have read the book or read it as well it gives you two something to discuss.
• United States
23 Apr 08
Hmmm, that's probably a good idea. Be prepared for any questions and be willing to discuss the material they've read. Great thoughts!
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
22 Apr 08
My son already reads above his age level. He is in 2nd grade and reads at a 4th grade level. If I left him to read at a second grade level he would be bored and that would hinder him learning. When I was a pre-teen I was reading such books as Stephen King. I would let me son do the same.
• United States
23 Apr 08
Stephen King writes a lot of horror type books. What if your son was nine and wanted to read Stephen King?
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
23 Apr 08
Due to the fact that he is an old school horror movie buff, I see no problems with him readin the books - if he wanted to. He has seen quite a few Stephen King movies.
@Modestah (11179)
• United States
23 Apr 08
we are quite careful in regards to the books that our children read. We do not mind them reading beyond their age as far as wholesome material with more difficult language - but their innocence is very important to us and we do try to guard it.
• United States
23 Apr 08
I really want to protect children's innocence. It's hard to do when there is so much in this world coming at them.
@kezabelle (2974)
22 Apr 08
Yes I would allow them to read books above their "age" if I felt they were able to cope reading them, I read plenty that I probably shouldnt and it did me no harm because I knew they were just stories and I knew if I needed anything explaining I could go to my mum, il do the same for my children as she did for me
• United States
23 Apr 08
I guess it doesn't do too much harm initially. I read a lot of stuff that I really shouldn't have read as a teen.
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
23 Apr 08
My friend's baby has reached 5 years old and loves to grab books at the bookstore so I bought her children books instead so that I know that she can learn a lot in these books.
• United States
23 Apr 08
That's the time to get them to really enjoy reading. Good for you!
@angie828 (232)
• United States
26 Apr 08
I think that just depends on the individual. I was allowed to read any kind of book I wanted when I was younger. I was reading Danielle Steele when I was in 6th grade. But I was very mature for my age. If I had a child who was mature enough to handle the content in a book, I would probably let them read it first as long as I had read it first.