Has your soon ever peed on you or a sibling on purpose?
@SusanShayAvon (1003)
United States
April 22, 2008 8:54pm CST
My daughter screamed like she was hurt and tells me that her brother peed on her. Why in the world would he do this? I do not et this one. They have done a lot of things but this takes the cake. Have your kids ever done this?
3 responses
@infobyaj36 (907)
• United States
23 Apr 08
I have two boys and to my knowledge they have never peed on eachother or anyone else for that matter. Of course this does not include when they were babies and liked to try and pee on me every diaper change, but of course that goes without saying.
The only reason I can figure that your son did this is because he can...lol. boys figure out at a young age that they can pee differently than girls can, your son probably figured out that this is one thing she couldn't do back...lol.
I am sorry I find this so amusing but boys do the strangest things sometimes and I am not going to use the old cliche boys will be boys because this is not an excuse or a belief of mine. But after parenting for the last 21 years which is more than half of my life I have learned not to be surprised or shocked about any behavior. I wouldn't be too hard on him nor would I expect this behavior to continue I am sure it was a one time thing but correction without surprise is usually the best action. I have found that when children can totally shock their parents it adds to the whole excitement over the misbehavior.
Chalk it up as lesson learned for the both of you and move on. My favorite phrase that has always proven to be true is-"This to shall pass". Before you know it he will be graduating and the peed on your sister story will be one to laugh about.
Best wishes
PS We have five children ages 12 to 21. Live and learn...Life is always full of challenges we can laugh about later.
@SusanShayAvon (1003)
• United States
23 Apr 08
Thanks a lot. I feel that maybe he did this also because he figured out that she can't to possibly. I mean she can be mean to him and I have always told her that he will pay her back one day. Of course, I did not mean like this but he did it. Thank you a lot for a positive response. I understand the laughing. I didn't but it sounds funny now. Except the fact that this is going to be one of those half negative and half positive discussions. But I know that if someone will be honest this has to have happened to someone else. Thanks again.
@acastlegirl (135)
• United States
23 Apr 08
How old is your son? My son has never done this, but when he was in the first grade another boy peed on him in the restroom. Fortunately the school kept extra clothes there so he was able to change. The kid that peed on him had behavioral problems. After that incident my brother told me that he peed on another kid at school once when he was young. My brother was (and still is) a poster child for ADHD. He's 35 now and still hyper. I don't think it is too rare especially if he is real young. But you will need to make sure he knows that it is wrong because if he does it to another child it can make some parents very angry. I think some diseases can be spread this way because when the school nurse called me she said I don't need to worry about it because it just got on his pants. She also said it was a first for her!
@SusanShayAvon (1003)
• United States
23 Apr 08
My son is three years old. He definately does not have behaviorial problems. And doesn't have ADHD. He is just a normal kid. His sister bullies him a lot and I hink that may be why he done this. He knows never to do it again. Thanks a lot.
@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
23 Apr 08
i have never been peed on or peed on anyone and i think that if anyone ever tried to pee on me id have a really big problem with it...i don't know why your son did something like that...if my son were to do something liek that i think i would have a talk with him and ask him why he done it and see if i could figure it out...and see how it affected your daughter...
@SusanShayAvon (1003)
• United States
23 Apr 08
I did have a long talk with him and still do not have a why. I do know that I am sure that he will not do it again. Thanks a lot.