i lover her but she loves someone else...

haha...welcome to the club...have been in this situation for quite a while now...theres no easy way out man...if you profess your love, chances are you'll probably get shot down then n' there and if you dont tell her then you'll slowly die inside....have a wonderful day!

I suggest you stay away from this kind relationship. Even though you succeed in making her you lover, but you will need to convince her heart almost every time. I mean this with a pressure. It's not an easy task to do, maybe now you have a thought of, "I can do it." But it's because you're now in the state of giving her love. It will be no major problem. You shall remember, a relationship has a wax-and-wane condition. When you're down, and her thought is still float-manifested by her ex, it will be totally useless. Her emotional will draw the compassion to her ex again, that time you may fall in a total overwhelming and feel failed. The sign of a broken relationship. You think of wasting time along with material sacrifice. She needs greater time than a woman who's not. You can knock her thought down with a multitude love expression -or you can do better than her ex- which is not available for mostly time. Because each human has a mood, the wax-and-wane condition. It's up to you. You may try and see the result.

you should talk to her. tell her how you feel so she can understand that this is bothering you. its hard to conclude on something without knowing whats going on.

hmmm... I know how hard it is. As for that are you sure that she still loves her x-bf? Don't jump into conclusions, why not talk to her about it. Im sure your a close friend to her right? For sure she won't hesitate to pour out what she feels. If your conclusion is right then Im sorry for that as we cant do things to have something we want and love to be ours right? Sometimes we have to sacrifice and let go of things to what makes them happy. Maybe she's down or hmmm maybe you're the one she cares for?? ^_^ talk to her for you to have a clear mind. If you think you need to tell her your feelings, then go for it. believe in what you feel and think is best. Good Luck!!

I believe you should tell her your feelings so that she would have an idea about it. Who knows... she will realize that she likes you too.. that could be a start, right? It is better to tell her than regret of not telling her your feelings. Goodluck!

you should tell it to her, you could be that someone who could help her get over her ex.

If she loves someone else, you should be very careful. may it is the guy that disvirgined her and there is a soul tiles between both of them. My advice is that you should call her to order to know her mind before you continue give your best.

Are you certain that she is really still after her ex boyfriend? I believe you need to talk to her about it. For a relationship to grow - couples need to be open about anything and everything especially those that concern their thoughts and feelings about the relationship itself. You need to tell her honestly about what you feel, go ahead tell her that you are not comfortable in the idea of her having hang-ups with her ex. If she does not accept your explanation and does not do anything to proved that you are wrong about her having hang-ups with the ex, then dude that maybe is the clue - you have to wake up. You have to let her go and let her pursue what she really wants. After all if she loves you that much - the same way you are feeling for her - she will always find her way to you again. Goodluck.

hello, sorry to hear about your dilemma. i honestly feel that it is right to let her know how you feel. i said this coz i did it in the past and though i was so scared at that time, i realized it is the best move i have ever done. i fell in love with a friend and i dont want to ruined it but i feel i wont move on if i dont let him know and there are so many If's and BUT's lingering and i dont answers on it till i really do face the reality that i admit what's in my heart and let him decide. he said NO, but the beauty of that is i move on since then. i dont have to wonder what it is like if i said my feelings and what will be his reaction. freeing myself helps me realize that it wasnt really the kind and intensity of love i thought it was, i said this coz i feel the more we are keeping something inside the more we think of it and the more we spend time to nurture such feeling. i realized i was just obsessed and i am grateful that he didnt take advantage of me at the time that i was so vulnerable. if your friend decided not to be friends with you anymore after you express your feelings, then that is her choice. maybe she feels that she is betrayed coz she thought all along you were just friends OR she will shy away from you coz she dont want to hurt your feelings more coz she cannot return the kind of love you want to give her. either way, respect her and be ready for the consequences that comes after such move. BUT if you prefer to just keep it inside you, keep wondering, keep hoping, keep hurting then that is your choice, you will never know that answer till you ask and express yourself. either way you choose, be it keeping or not - you will never gonna be the same person as you are right now coz the pain will be there and the question will always lingers. before i end, im sure if your friend truly treasures you and the friendship you both have she will understand it and if not im sure over time she will. takecare and i wish you all the best! "if there is someone worthy of your love, she will surely come!" "true love cannot be found where it doesnt truly exist, nor cannot be hidden where it really does!"

matters of the heart ,don't tell her that you are in love with her as you said you don't want her to become creeped out , but i think you should tell her that you care about her , and just listen to what she has to say, one thing you must learn, never keep things bottled up inside, it will torment you, sometimes in life we tend to hurt our ownselves,just don't build your hope to much,i do wish you all the best gave me update on what happens, "flowers die , stories end, memories are forgotten and most things come to an end but precious people like you are tresured til the end"

How you know she is in love with someone else; Her x is past tense. If want and love her, say it; she won't know until.

I say weigh your options first. Listen to her but do not exploit the moment. Know why she still loves her ex. Ask her questions based on hypothetical possibilities. I have been in that situation before. Be there in her times of need and she will, in due time, see you as more than a friend.

i think that you should give her more time if she really still loves her former boyfriend. maybe because of this, she is not yet ready for a new relationship. instead, you should continue being her friend and always being there for her. then maybe things will get better soon.

dont wait, tell her what you feel about her, if she says i am still in love with her x then you can still be her friend or on the other hand you can be her new boyfriend.

Well, Why are you with her then ? You are telling she love some one else but you are so far ....but why it has been happaned ? See there is no hope if she is not loving ....nothing will happen after telling her you feelings too .... so just keep contact with her ...and let her love him ..... thanks !!!