wat would u do if ur parents r against ur love??
@thedemolishingdude (48)
India
April 23, 2008 12:42am CST
wat if u love a person very very much but ur parents think tht he/she is not the right choice for u then wat would u do???
but u think tht u could not get any one better than tht person then wat would u do??
plz help me out ppl i am in a similar fix!!
n i dont want to go against my parents who have raised me and took care of me all these years!!
plz reply!!!
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@musicman6 (2407)
• United States
24 Apr 08
But, demolishingdude, who's to say your parents are right, what if they are wrong!
Are you living your life, or are you living your parents life?
You have to make decisions from your "heart and mind", but you can use your parents advice or suggestions, if you need them, no one can say they are right or wrong!
I had to go against my parents also, but I was willing to take responsibility, for any wrong or right decisions I made, but at least "I" made the decision!
@thedemolishingdude (48)
• India
26 Apr 08
ok i don say tht always our parents may be right but they r more experienced than us and they have lived longer days than us so obviously they can make out whether a person is good for u or not.for example if i lie to my mom abt anythin she immediately comes to know abt it. Wat i mean is tht my parents know me better than i know myself and so i trust them blindly n i think they would make a better decision abt ma love than myself!!!
@kezabelle (2974)
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23 Apr 08
Well if that was my child I would support them and simply make sure that if I was right and it turned out all wrong i was there to help mend my childs broken heart. I know my parents werent overly happy I moved so far away with the man I love but I did it anyway because I know deep down they care for me and want to see me happy we all have a right to choose what we want to do you have to tell your parents that what ever choice you make its not that you are going against them more accepting the right you have to be happy and make your own choices.
@thedemolishingdude (48)
• India
23 Apr 08
but wat if ur parents think tht the person u have chosen is not a right choice n just for the sake of ur hapiness they wont let u leap into sumthin which they think is wrong!!??
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@Jemina (5770)
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25 Apr 08
Well, you can't really blame your parents for behaving that way. They love you so much as their child and they just want all the best things in this world for you.
My mother was somewhat against my boyfriend because he doesn't belong to the same church as my family does. But I didn't try to argue with my mother. I just pointed out to her the many good characteristics my boyfriend possess and with prayer I was able to convince her.
