can be friends with "you"?
By littlewhite
@littlewhite (256)
China
April 23, 2008 4:10am CST
i always hear friends say that there have no real friendship between you & your colleagues. when u at work, there just have benfits.
but i insist not every colleagues canot be friend with me.i believe i can get real friendship when i go to work. and in deed,i do.
how do guys u here think about. ?
3 responses
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
23 Apr 08
I also feel the same way that each of your colleague cannot be your dear friend. Out of so many colleagues, there are few person, who qualify as your 'good' friends and worthy of 'friends'.
@littlewhite (256)
• China
23 Apr 08
until now i have realize office's relationship is confused. my friend always tell me that once u in the socity u must carefully to deal with those relationship. i think it is a hard work for me.!
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
23 Apr 08
Try to evaluate that which of your colleagues are like friends.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
23 Apr 08
i think its quite possible to be friends with office colleagues. but one must be careful. because in professional relationships there are most of the times so many things associated that are good for own.but in that case there can be very mature friendship.
@littlewhite (256)
• China
23 Apr 08
yep, as u said,many things associated that are good for own, once my leader told me that, he just be friend with me because i have no intimidate to he, but if i have, he wont friendly to me, i am very down for his word. now i have quit the job, but i keep touch with one of my colleagues knew from the company, we r friends all the time.
thanks for ur response!
