Why do we break down if failed in relationships ?

people that usually breaks down are the one that are emotionally weak and too much attached to their partner. when we get into a relationship we tend to give everything for the person we love, everything even ourselves. we put ourselves to the least of our priority and make our love one the center of our world. there's nothing wrong with loving, but we need to know the limit and remind ourselves about it when we feel we are in the verge of forgetting it. loving is a wonderful feeling but we must not forsake ourselves, we must leave something for ourselves so that when the time comes that we need to break the relationship we can be able to bounce back again and avoid breakdown.

The reason why we break down and cry when we failed in our relationship is because we know that we are successful in being truly happy with that person and it really hurt to see someone you love leave you. It is the heart that makes us cry because it would feel the hurt inside.

i believe that whenever something bad happened, we intend to pour out our emotions just so to ease the pain. in this case, having failed in relationships truly bring so much pain in a way that perhaps, you have invested so much emotions that you feel bad because it failed.

i think that happens because its in your mind that you spent all of that speical time with that person you once loved , and now that its no longer going to happen your mind starts to flashback and replay all of the happy moments that you know arent going to happen anymore ..and it breaks you down weather now or later , and you can throw out all of the pictures and stuff toys that you shared with that person but you still have memories and you cant get rid of those ..its a bad process to go through but you grow in the end and when the next person comes along your stronger

i think that this happens because the emotion level rises everytime something bad or sad happens.