Road Rager!

@bevvy22 (279)
United States
April 23, 2008 7:03pm CST
Are you a road rage driver? When someone cuts you off and then drives slow in front of you, do you get angry? If so, what do you do? Will you go out of your way just to make your point to them that you are really pissed off? I've seen someone first hand "moon" the other driver, but he was driving; in heavy traffic in Charlotte.
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@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
24 Apr 08
I am not a road rager, but I do get irritated at inconsiderate drivers. About the worse I do is if someone pulls out in front of me, I throw my hands up in the air and make some comment to myself. Which by the way is probably not the wisest thing I can do, for as my hands are in the air, no-ones is on the wheel.
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@bevvy22 (279)
• United States
24 Apr 08
Maybe you should keep one on the wheel. Pretend its a fish, I know you won't let that go.
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
25 Apr 08
Hadnt thought of that, just might work.
@anawar (2404)
• United States
29 Apr 08
I think people act differently behind the wheel of their cars. Everyone is frustrated with the fast pace of life and the falling economy. I think driving is the one thing people feel they have control over. It may be petty and dangerous, but people are powerful when they drive. If it makes them feel better to try to annoy me, then I'm happy to oblige. I send them on their way with a silent blessing because I feel sad they experience life this way. I also know that at one time or another, I have done something that looks like I am deliberately out to harass the drivers around me. I know I might have slowed down because I'm lost and looking for a street. I know I've cut someone off simply because they were in my blind spot. Sometimes I forget to use my blinker and I know the person behind me thinks my actions were deliberate. If someone behind me wants to be in front of me, as soon as I can, I pull over and let them pass by. It makes them happy and I can continue enjoying my ride. I learned to slow down the pace of my life and things don't bother me very much. I have always been a gentle person, often to my detriment. I know some of my friends think they teach the other driver a lesson by blasting a horn at them or screaming. If it makes you feel better, then that is your way. Me? I like positive energy near me and try to spread it around. Have I ever been angry in frustration certainly. But, no, I don't have to retaliate with negativity. Why bother I saw two guys stop at a light and both of them got out of their cars. One walked up to the other and popped him in the mouth! Both drivers returned to their cars and drove away. I never forgot it because it's the first time I ever saw anyone get hit. And, I was very surprised when the guy that got hit didn't hit back. Whatever their problem was, I guess they worked it out. Take care. If it feels better to react then have at it. 'To each his own.' I'm not judging anyone.
@bevvy22 (279)
• United States
1 May 08
Wow anawar. It certainly would be great if everyone exhibited that same positive energy as yourself. There would probably be less accidents, cheaper car insurance rates, and happier people if everyone could deal with the stresses of everyday life the same way as you do. Thanks so much for the positive insight.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
24 Apr 08
No... I get frustrated at people's rudeness sometimes, but I don't react where they can see it. Most of the time it's not that big of a deal.
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@bevvy22 (279)
• United States
24 Apr 08
Thanks peavey, for the input. I get frustrated too if they are the ones that are driving like a maniac and they give you a hard time for doing the speed limit and trying to drive responsibly.
@branmatt (52)
• United States
29 Apr 08
I am just beginning to drive really, so I have yet to run into any situations like this. I have seen my parents, and other adults, react quite differently and it seems like it depends on their moods when they get in the car to start with.
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@bevvy22 (279)
• United States
1 May 08
You are right branmatt. The moods we are in at the time does make a difference on your reaction. Please drive safe and never under the influence of anything. Sounds like you are young and you've got your whole life yet to live. Thanks for the response and be a smart driver. Take Care!
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
24 Apr 08
Usually the only time i get really aggrivated with other drivers is when they do something so stupid that it is dangerous then i usually just mutter about idiots having a licinces and wonder where in gods name is the cops because the moron is going to cause someone to get killed.
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
26 Apr 08
They needed to. middle aged drivers prove that!
• United States
29 Apr 08
i do to an extent have road rage. but my sister has it bad. right after i had my second son she was driving me around town b/c i could not drive and a old guy prob in his late seventys almost t-boned my car. She followed him to the store and got out and went inside and cussed him out. I have never done that but i have yelled at them for cutting me off if i have to hit the brakes to avoid hitting them. or threw my hands up in the air at them.
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@bevvy22 (279)
• United States
1 May 08
Well blueangel_7298, it sounds like your sister is one person I would never want to cut off; even when I turn 70. But still, that's funny. Thanks for the response.
@alindahaw (1219)
• Philippines
10 May 08
There are times when I really get so angry when somebody cuts me off on the road but I always manage to control my anger. As much as possible, I don't honk or shout at the driver who cuts me off because that could really trigger some serious trouble. A lot of people die on the road because somebody got so angry while driving.
@buldwgz (1489)
• United States
29 Apr 08
I do get quite frustrated but I rarely lash out at anyone. Fear of being shot keeps me from that reaction. I tend to just say thing so that I can hear in frustration. Better than road rage is this story. I had an older brother who was so embarrassed that someone may see him driving that he would literally duck down under the dash board when another car would approach him. HE WAS DRIVING AND WOULD DUCK DOWN UNDER THE DASHBOARD! Not too bright that one!
@bevvy22 (279)
• United States
1 May 08
That is one of the funniest stories I've ever heard, buldwgz. Thanks for telling it.
• United States
1 May 08
I am sometimes. Just depends on the day I am having. Some days are worse than others. But the only kind of rage I ever express is screaming (which only gives myself a headache) :)
@bevvy22 (279)
• United States
9 May 08
OHHH you're a screamer too??? I'm glad I'm not the only one. Sometimes I get so frustrated, that's the only way I can communicate. It's not a good trait to have, you and me. Thanks for responding.