Well,I have a terrible day with my elder brother,we have a quarrel yesterday
By duckling
@duckling (33)
China
April 24, 2008 4:10am CST
Now i am 24 year's old and my brother is 26 .when we are young my parent were not very rich so we have a not very good childhood but we still happy because we got along very well.Now he studies in a high school in another big city and we often communicate by cell phone .He will graduate in june,i am very happy cause i can meet him soon. Yesterday i met him on the internat we chat well,and he wanted to get help from me to buy a laptop.I said i was glad to help even i didnt know anything about buying a laptop.He also wanted me to help him to gather some information for his friend who decided to run a grocery.He told me to go to the grocery beside me to see how many kind of food there are ,and what are the producing area,list them down and he will back home to fetch the laptop and the product list.I am busy at working and i feel very angry because he always tell me to do something for him.I tell him i am busy and suggest him to find the food information on the internet,he doesn't hear me and yell at me .He think i am a selfish sister whom only care myself !He is an adult he has his friend why always depends on me ? Is this called selfish? I really feel bad.He even not hear me anymore,and he said he never has a sister like me .Is this my fault ?I am so confused.:(
2 responses
@kezabelle (2974)
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24 Apr 08
You are not selfish he could have easily got the information he needed himself, or if his friend is so serious about setting up a business he should be doing it himself not relying on others.
You can not help it if you are busy with work that is life, but dont worry let it go it is just a silly quarrel and not worth being too upset over. Siblings quarrel all the time mostly it means nothing and will soon be forgotten about
@dantakum (404)
• Nigeria
24 Apr 08
Hello Duckling,to me you are not selfish,you were only pressued with workd and wornout with strees you know people are some time or let me say always thinking of them selfs first,he may have forgotin how you both use to be all the good times and the sorroful times ,sometimes we forget the good part of people easily,well am the olders of my family with three little brother but my secont younger brother is sayin our mum dislikes him and loves me,which is never so what ever he want she does it for him and for me i dont live with them i only come ones in a while but when i come am alway stick to her she's all i have.she's my friend,advisour,ever thing in life,but on you case try and let him understnad that you never ment to upset him and that you were streesed out at your work,try and get an excuse and to say you are feedup of tryin to pach up things,we all make mistakes,which you know.
