Do you want kids or not?
By maggie85
@maggie85 (34)
China
7 responses
@Jemina (5770)
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25 Apr 08
Of course, I do. I just hope I am not infertile or I would consider myself a failure.
Anyway, I am looking forward to having my own kids in a couple of years. I have been teaching primary for several years and I have been longing to teach my own kids too.
What is keeping you to have kids?
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
6 May 08
Welcome to Mylot, I have two Adults, and then I have Grandkids. I have 13 grankids. Wow, Right? I love them dearly. I even have some twin Boys that are two yrs, old. They are my daughters Boys. Fraternal. Twins. I hope you wait untill you are finacial Set. They is the smart thing to do.
@maggie85 (34)
• China
6 May 08
Wow, you really have a large and happy family. I'd like to say thank you to you, yes, financial is the first thing that determines when you can have kids and how many kid to raise.I have graduated from university for about 1 year, and I found a job in a company, the salary is not so good, maybe having kids is not so easy thing, but I will improve myself while I am working, get a good salary, then I will have kid.^^
@smacksman (6053)
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24 Apr 08
First off - welcome to Mylot, Maggie.
Having children is a very natural thing to do so maybe with you it will just happen.
As there are many couples who are unable to have children when they do come they are a blessing.
It will all pan out in time.
@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
24 Apr 08
Hi there. Actually having children wether your married or not, is a big decision you and your husband need to discuss. You cant listen to other people saying wether or not you should start having babies, thats like letting other people decide on how you should live. Its totally up to you. Have a great day maggie...
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
24 Apr 08
In some ways I want kids and in other ways I don't....I want them cause I want to pass my experiences onto them and watch them grow and be a mother...on the other hand, there is so much to do in life (I want to travel and thats hard with kids) and with my job and writing on the side and everything else, I have so little time to do it all and having kids put put a halt to all of that.....
@arshad5555 (812)
• Pakistan
24 Apr 08
I am also getting married in next 2 years. And me and my fionce decided to have our child after 2 years of our marriage. Because my fionce is only 18 years and when we will be married then she will be only 21 years old so i don't want to put her in trouble in young age.
So we will enjoy our first years of married life and then we will have only 2 childern.
I think you should also have 2 childern. But you can take some break.
Thanks
@kezabelle (2974)
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24 Apr 08
Having children is a personal choice no one can say if you should or shouldnt have them. For me having children was something I always wanted to do I have been lucky met a wonderful man and we have two gorgeous little girls and also plan to add one more baby addition to our house in the next 2 years or so. Children are a wonderful blessing but only you can make the choice if having children is for you or not.
