I lost my baby...

oh, i'm so sorry you lost your baby . but the way you accept it is so great. you're right. everything happens for a reason. we don't exactly know what god plans are, but i believe he will give the best thing for your. god bless you!

I'm so sorry for your loss. How long have you been trying to concieve? I really hope things work out better next time. My thoughts are with you and your family in this time of need. And if you have any questions about fertility and conception, feel free to contact me. I'm really knowledgable when it comes to those things.

I am so sorry this happened to you. I lost a baby when i was 30 and it is devastating, I know. It is difficult in that nothing anyone says or doesn't say helps how you feel. It can't. there are no right words for something like this. You are exactly right. The pain does get duller in time and you will move on and you will never forget. By the way, you have a very beautiful attitude. If you were trying to get pregnant....don't give up. I had my last daughter at 38. It is not so risky anymore at your age as it used to be.

Sorry, to hear that. Yes, hes your angel above who will be guiding and watching over you. Maybe another baby. Or if none, how about the idea of adopting one. Children are our angels, oh how beautiful are the babies.

It's maybe too late but I do hope my words are not yet late to conole you. At least your probability of getting pregnant is higher now that you have conceived one even if it hasn;t reached maturity. ever lose hope because I know a lot of women who were 45 yet they were able to have babies. One of them was my best friend who had her first daughter at 43.Just continue praying... if you think it would help you recover if you will adopt one child for some time, then you can try it. It's the mothering to a child that matter and not how you carry him/her inside your womb. Good luck and God Bless you and your hubby.

i am married for five years now, before me nad wife got married we live together for 3 years so all in all that is 8 years. since then we are trying to have a baby. my wife has been to a lot of miscarriages and i deffinitely know what you fell. me and my wife had been there. not once not twice but a lot more already. the first time was the most painful of it all. we both cried so much because we were happy when she first told me that she id delayed for her monthly sickness. then after a week we bought a preg test and confirmed that she was pregnant. we went to an obgyne of course. but i dont know what happened but we just lost it. so we tried and tried but never gave up. now we have a two yer old son whoae pictures appears as my avatar. we waited for him for a long time and it is worth it. just hold on believe in God and wishes to really come true. dont forget to have communications with your obgyne coz she/he can help you a lot. goodluck to you ruth and to y our husband too. dont lose hope

I am sorry for your loss and for you to wait for so long for this to happen. I had a child that I gave up for adoption, and when I married, I had so many miscarriages (also known as spontaneous abortions) that when I went to the fertility doctor, he said I had been pregnant several times. I did try and got pregnant, but that resulted in a miscarriage (I was a month along) and I know it hurts when this happens. We just have to keep praying for God to grant us this request. We went on to adopt, but the babies were three months old and it is usually better to adopt when they are new born (I think it is the old adage that that is the case when you find yourself pregnant) I still prayed I would get pregnant and still pray now to bear a child. (if Sarah and Elizabeth in the Bible could get pregnant, why not me?) I hope that God grants you another baby, and that you all will remember that little one who is with God in heaven. I heard that in heaven, the babies grow up.

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you all the best in being able to conceive again and having a successful pregnancy.

I am so sorry and know that words cannot help how you are feeling. I know it hurts but there are so many women that go through it. Most of the time it is nature taking charge and deciding against your wishes. I hope you will be successful in the future if you decide to try for a child again. Nothing beats the feeling of being a mommy to a little one.

I'm sorry....It was soo sad... I know you're strong enough to face what has happen to you. Everything that happen to us have their own reason. I hope there will be another new one coming up. Ya.. every things happen with God will...

(Exhale)Sweetheart.....to say that i wasnt touch when i logged on here and read your post would be a LIE!! First off i just wanna tell you that i am truly sorry for what has happen to you. Like you said yourself, God does so many things for a reason. Some of things we as humans can look at and guess the reason why, and at other times we can only sit and wonder. Ruthinian i want you to remember that when God closes one door sweetheart, youe better believe he is going to open 5 or 6 more in your life. I know God saw and felt that your baby was indeed a pure ANGEL from on high and felt that she belonged where the streets are paved with gold and everyday is a good day. Instead of being here in this cruel sinful world. There is no doubt in my mind that your beautiful child is watching over you. I have faith that God has something wonderful in tore for you and your husband. So just hold your head up and take everything that you may be going through a day at a time. "When Praises Go Up, Blessings Will Come Down" I will keep you in my prayers!

I'm sorry to you and your husband. But I think the next time, you'll have a pretty baby. Wish you have a good luck in the life.

I am so sorry to hear about your baby. Nothing is greater than the lost of one's child. And being a mother, its quite hard for you to bury your child when in your mind you believe that it should be the child who buries their mother's and not the other way around. But God must have borrowed your little angel for a while. They might need her more than you do at the moment. Maybe she was sent to heaven so she could take care of you more than when she is down here. Since God just borrowed your angel, He will also give you back what He took. You will again conceive. I have a friend who had a miscarriage (twice - and all of those miscarriages she had twins). She didn't lose hope and now she got her bundle of joy and is now a thriving 5 year old kid. Just hang in there

I am so sorry for your loss. I can relate for the reason why I have my user name as Remembering 1996 is because I was pregnant w/ my daughter and two weeks befor the 5th month she had to be terminated for she had ostreogenisis imperfecta type 2 which is the brain is paper thin and the bones are like twigs. I did everything in my power to stop it from happening. I even went for a second opinion they told me the same thing. They told me that the only way that my daughter was liveing was off of me. They told me she wasn't going to make the full 9 months and I prayed long and hard to god for I am totally against abortions and I cried begging him to forgive me for what I was about to do. After they had taken her the doctor asked me if I wanted to hold her I did. She fit in the palm of my left hand and I got to say my goodbye's to her. Next month on May 6th she will be 12 yrs. old. I know she is well taken care of up in heaven and I will get to see her someday soon on the otherside. You will to w/ your baby. My heart and thoughts go out to you and your family. Godbless you.

I am so sorry to hear that you lost your baby. I s such a sad thing to have happen,but as you said things happen for a reason. I hope you can get pregnant again soon. My prayers and thoughts are with you. God bless you.

its really sad to hear taht. hope you get one soon,. i know you can have another. also talk with doctor so that next time you don't have to be sad.best of luck.

Oh ruthinian, I am so sorry you lost your baby. I also like your optimistic spirit. Honestly, I am very bad at consoling people. But I still would like to share a small thought of mine. You don't have to physically give birth to a baby to become a Mom. Motherhood is a divine quality that exists within people irrespective of whether they have given birth to a baby or not. I have known women who had several kids but were such bad mothers. On the contrary, several unmarried women have taken care of their relatives' kids and been great mothers. Judging by your post, I guess you already have within you a wonderful Mom. Keep the spirits high. Who knows, one day you might have a child in your life. I wish you all happiness in life.

Yes. You will be blessed with another baby and God's grace will shower on you. Though I felt sorry to note about the loss, I appreciate your braveness to accept the happeninga and regained confidence to have a better future. GOD bless you.

I am really sorry to hear about the loss os your unborn child. I hope that you will be blessed with another bundle of joy in the near future and hope the pain of losing the one you were pregnant with gets easier with time. luvs

I am so sorry to hear your sad news. But it sounds like that you are coping well. I miscarried, some years ago now, but understand abit of what you are feeling. I was only 19 at the time and went on to have 4 more children. I hope that you are blessed with a child as soon as you are ready to try again.